{"id":5155,"date":"2017-01-09T12:00:29","date_gmt":"2017-01-09T17:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lettinggo\/?p=5155"},"modified":"2017-01-08T16:08:35","modified_gmt":"2017-01-08T21:08:35","slug":"new-rules-rise-whatever-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lettinggo\/2017\/01\/new-rules-rise-whatever-way.html","title":{"rendered":"New Rules to Rise Above Whatever is in Your Way"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you ever feel that you don&#8217;t have the spiritual strength to face the difficulties in your path through life? Here\u2019s a small story meant to act as a reminder and an encouragement along the way:<\/p>\n<p>Rebecca had decided that her best chance of getting hired by a company doing geological survey work in the Alaskan wilderness was to earn a private license to fly twin-engine planes. A few days later she began taking lessons from a wise old bush pilot, highly respected throughout the region for his cool and collected ways of dealing with the worst possible situations.<\/p>\n<p>After the mandatory ground schooling, at which she excelled, and during her fourth lesson in the sky, the flight instructor gave her what she thought was a special treat: Taking his hands off the yoke, he turned the flight controls over to her. There she was, just as she had dreamed, sitting tall in the co-pilot\u2019s seat with the flight stick firmly in her hands.<\/p>\n<p>Rebecca felt as though she was literally on \u201ccloud 9\u201d; that is to say, until a scant moment later when she found herself rudely awakened from her dream. She tried shaking her head to get rid of what was before her eyes, but that did not work. In the distance, through the windshield, she could see something rushing toward her faster than what she knew to do about it!<\/p>\n<p>Right in the path of the plane, and seeming to have appeared as if out of nowhere, a huge snow-capped mountain lay dead ahead. Transfixed by its sheer mass, she found herself as frozen at the stick as were the iced and craggy peaks stretched out before her. And she was headed straight for them! A deep chill came into the cabin.<\/p>\n<p>All along the wise old instructor was watching her closely, studying her reactions. Of course, she didn\u2019t know it, but he had turned the controls over to her for just this test now taking place. He waited until the last moment he could, and was just about to take over again, when she snapped out of her fear-induced trance. She looked away from the mountain and turned to face him.<\/p>\n<p>Then, in a voice so trembling and timid that it even scared her, she broke the tense silence of the moment: \u201cSir,\u201d she said, \u201cplease take over the controls. I\u2019m afraid we are about to crash!\u201d His reply stunned her. \u201cNo,\u201d he spoke quietly, \u201cI don\u2019t think I will. After all, it\u2019s your flight.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It was getting harder for her to take in a whole breath, as if she were standing in the oxygen-thin air atop the great white mountain before them. Struggling to control her voice, she dug down into herself and managed to ask one more question of her teacher: \u201cThen what should I do? Please, tell me what to do!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She looked over at him again, and was surprised to see virtually no worry at all upon his face. His calm demeanor helped to steady her nerves. She took a deep breath and relaxed her hands that had just about choked the life out of the control yoke. The next moment he gave her a short three-word instruction, and she knew everything would soon be all right. He simply said: \u201cChange your altitude.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOf course,\u201d her own mind echoed back to his command, and a split second later she pulled firmly back on the yoke; the craft responded by rising, and mere moments later the icy peak passed beneath her and out of sight.<\/p>\n<p>As Rebecca sat there relieved by the results of her actions, she was struck by two things at once: how could she have forgotten that the controls were in her hands, and at least as important, why had she been unable to remember this on her own? At that moment, soaring at ten thousand feet above the ground, she made a silent vow to never again forget the lesson of this day: She could choose her own altitude.<\/p>\n<p>Doesn\u2019t this short truth tale remind you of a certain kind of spiritual strength that you know belongs to you, but that you have somehow forgotten or misplaced? It ought to; after all, how many of us look out ahead of ourselves at some unwanted event that looms too large, and find ourselves feeling out of control\u2026 headed for what seems an unavoidable collision?<\/p>\n<p>Wouldn\u2019t it be nice to be able to reach down inside of ourselves, grab hold of the controls of our own consciousness, and pull ourselves up? To quietly watch that would-be mountain of a problem, whatever it is, just pass by harmlessly below us, even as we reach ever-higher and happier skies?<\/p>\n<p>We can learn to do this. Such a power is not just a pipe dream; ours is the ability to take conscious control of our spiritual altitude. But this greatest of \u201cgifts\u201d is given to us only in proportion to our willingness to awaken from those unconscious parts of ourselves that not only become transfixed before challenging events, but that are the secret creators of the very things into which we then crash! This is why we must work in every moment to remain inwardly awake\u2014to be aware of our attitude towards our life as it unfolds before and around us: so that whenever we find a negative attitude in ourselves\u2014some form of dark thought or feeling trying to drag us down\u2014we don\u2019t say \u201cI\u201d to it. In a manner of speaking, we pull up and away from that part of ourselves by withdrawing our consent to be confined by how it would define us. This kind of conscious action on our part changes not only what we perceive as being possible in the moment, but it also empowers us\u2014in the same moment\u2014to see and make new and higher choices.<\/p>\n<p>Seen or not, our attitude determines our altitude in life. The \u201clow\u201d life comes by default. Gravity guarantees we will reach the bottom. To go higher begins with choosing to be higher. Realizing the power to leave dark states beneath and behind us begins with recognizing that who we really are\u2014our True Nature\u2014has as much in common with self-limiting thoughts and feelings as does a shark with a star!<\/p>\n<p>Remember this one great lesson: do the moment-to-moment work of dropping anything that wants to drag you down, and Truth itself will see to it that you rise.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you ever feel that you don&#8217;t have the spiritual strength to face the difficulties in your path through life? 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