{"id":4328,"date":"2015-08-26T12:00:08","date_gmt":"2015-08-26T16:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lettinggo\/?p=4328"},"modified":"2015-08-18T19:38:34","modified_gmt":"2015-08-18T23:38:34","slug":"let-go-and-flow-with-real-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lettinggo\/2015\/08\/let-go-and-flow-with-real-life.html","title":{"rendered":"Let Go and Flow with Real Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The truth is we can\u2019t know what to do in advance of any given moment. When we meet life with preconceived ideas about how to respond to what unfolds before us\u2014we are like downhill skiers trying to know when and where to make turns before it snows. Add to this idea the fact that whenever socially contrived ideals go before us as measuring sticks, they are too soon turned into some form of self-righteous judgment\u2014making us quick to punish anyone found guilty of not doing what we think ought to have been done.<\/p>\n<p>Knowledge, regardless of its sophisticated nature, is a tool. It arises from and belongs to what has passed. As such it embodies, de\ufb01nes, and relates us to life through what we already know is true about the world around us. By de\ufb01nition, this kind of understanding is limited. But real life is not limited to what was; it is always new because it\u2019s the expression of a compassionate and living intelligence that actively shapes whatever it touches, as well as whatever reaches out to touch it. You could say that each moment appears, as it does\u2014in whatever its form or color\u2014hard or soft, dark or light\u2014to reveal us to ourselves. How can we hope to learn from such moments, to be transformed and perfected by them, if we meet them with hardened biased views about how they should unfold? No form is free.<\/p>\n<p>And just as one wouldn\u2019t mistake the ladder he must climb for the rooftop from which he hopes to view the stars, neither should we confuse even the most sophisticated spiritual knowledge for those innermost revelations that can come to us only through living in the now. Genuine self-knowledge is one and the same as being fully self-aware in the present moment. As such, it is never static. This \ufb02uid level of Self places no demands on life, therefore it fears nothing that life may reveal. Being fearless, it never has to imagine a freedom \u201cto come,\u201d any more than a river needs to imagine how to \ufb02ow.<\/p>\n<p>When you are present to yourself, quietly watchful of the relationship that is always unfolding in the present moment, then you have no more need to prepare for what life will bring than a newly opened rose needs to ready itself for the warmth of the sun that comes to release its fragrance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The truth is we can\u2019t know what to do in advance of any given moment. When we meet life with preconceived ideas about how to respond to what unfolds before us\u2014we are like downhill skiers trying to know when and where to make turns before it snows. 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