Great uncertainty surrounds the whole idea of self-realization. When it comes to the possibility of being in conscious relationship with what is divine\u2014of discovering your immortal Self\u2014what everyone wants to know is \u201chow?\u201d From that point it seems the confusion boils down to this question: Is there or is there not a plan of some kind? Are there organized lessons of some order that one can follow all the way to everlasting freedom?<\/p>\n
The answer is no and yes. And, in the end, the only person who succeeds in realizing the truth of Self is the one who will struggle to understand what only seems to be an irreconcilable contradiction.<\/p>\n
St. Theophan the Recluse said that divine grace will not act within us if we don\u2019t make efforts to obtain it, but to this idea he also added that human efforts alone are incapable of producing anything spiritually stable or permanent within us. Therefore, he goes on to say, that the divine result, the fulfillment of our realization, is \u201cto be obtained by a combination of effort and grace.\u201d Here\u2019s what this means to those seeking the Kingdom of the Divine:<\/p>\n
Effort\u2014any kind of \u201cplan\u201d\u2014without grace is useless. Grace\u2014unattended by effort and its inherent humiliation\u2014produces illusion. Just as there must be a marriage between the aspiring soul and the timeless Spirit that gives it life, so must there be a union between spiritual sweat, sacrifice, and the fruit of what that interior work reveals.<\/p>\n
To understand this requirement of self-realization is to recognize the absolute necessity of an authentic teacher and wisdom school. Without the new insights and access to the higher self-knowledge thus provided, the willing aspirant has no viable tools with which to work, nor does he or she receive the vital reminders\u2014and encouragements\u2014that are needed in order to renew the specialized work required to become self-realized.<\/p>\n
Without the spirit that governs the dissemination and directed application of these specialized tools, they prove useless, not unlike giving a book on calculus to a child who still plays with a ruler, imagining it as a seesaw. No one finds the true upper way without true guidance. And yet, on the other hand, seemingly in direct opposition to all stated above, we have this beautiful fact of life . . . [to be continued]<\/p>\n