{"id":1739,"date":"2012-07-16T03:00:55","date_gmt":"2012-07-16T07:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lettinggo\/?p=1739"},"modified":"2012-07-16T01:14:31","modified_gmt":"2012-07-16T05:14:31","slug":"the-freedom-to-change-your-experience-of-life-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lettinggo\/2012\/07\/the-freedom-to-change-your-experience-of-life-part-1.html","title":{"rendered":"The Freedom to Change Your Experience of Life (Part 1)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The truth about the past is simply that it has passed. This means that our experience of each moment &#8212; for its pleasure or pain, peace or trouble &#8212; is a direct reflection of what we are in relationship with in the present.<\/p>\n<p>Our attention connects us to life; it establishes our relationships with all that unfolds around and within us. Our experience of life reflects these relationships just as a rainbow reveals the different colors of light. This means that, whenever resentment or regret darkens our day, there&#8217;s only one reason for our sorrow: we&#8217;ve been tricked into revisiting and reforming an unconscious relationship with some misery-making moment from our past. We&#8217;ve simply made a bad connection within ourselves, due to a temporary lapse of attention\u2026 [to be continued]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The truth about the past is simply that it has passed. This means that our experience of each moment &#8212; for its pleasure or pain, peace or trouble &#8212; is a direct reflection of what we are in relationship with in the present. 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