{"id":165,"date":"2011-02-02T06:54:54","date_gmt":"2011-02-02T06:54:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lettinggo\/2011\/02\/only-you-can-prevent-painful-fires.html"},"modified":"2011-02-02T06:54:54","modified_gmt":"2011-02-02T06:54:54","slug":"only-you-can-prevent-painful-fires","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lettinggo\/2011\/02\/only-you-can-prevent-painful-fires.html","title":{"rendered":"Only You Can Prevent Painful Fires"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>A spark can cause a fire to appear but, without something to ignite and burn, a spark is just a flash of heat destined to disappear. We can either fight with &#8220;sparks&#8221; &#8212; someone&#8217;s cruel remark, a moment feared, whatever &#8212; carrying with us, in vain, a bucket of hopes and retorts to throw upon them as they appear&#8230;Or we can begin the difficult task of &#8220;clearing&#8221; out all of the &#8220;tinder&#8221; that comprises our false beliefs about this life, those parts of us that erupt in flames when life &#8220;heats&#8221; up.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Is this an easy task? Not by any means!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Can it be done? Yes, by all means. Otherwise the smoke we smell is that of our higher possibilities being slowly consumed.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>What to do?<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Let reality reveal what are sticks and what is stone. 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