{"id":1504,"date":"2012-05-02T03:00:08","date_gmt":"2012-05-02T07:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lettinggo\/?p=1504"},"modified":"2012-04-26T19:01:53","modified_gmt":"2012-04-26T23:01:53","slug":"be-careful-what-you-pray-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lettinggo\/2012\/05\/be-careful-what-you-pray-for.html","title":{"rendered":"Be Careful What You Pray For . . ."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The following may shock you, and I hope it comes as just that.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone practices prayer twenty-four hours a day . . . only neither do they know they&#8217;re praying, nor do they know (and this is the real problem) what it is they&#8217;re praying for! And this fact of life includes those people who say, &#8220;But I don&#8217;t believe in prayer. I don&#8217;t have a spiritual practice.&#8221; A moment&#8217;s consideration of the following insight proves the truth of this claim.<\/p>\n<p><em>Expectation is a form of prayer<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s look at a few simple examples to prove the point. Don&#8217;t you walk around hoping that what you&#8217;ve hoped for will happen? &#8220;Of course,&#8221; you would have to reply. &#8220;But what&#8217;s that to do with prayer?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Hasn&#8217;t it ever occurred to you that your hope that money&#8217;s going to come is a kind of prayer to the god of money? Certainly no one deliberately, <em>consciously<\/em>, sits there and says, &#8220;Oh please, lord of dollar bill signs, pour yourself down on me.&#8221; Then again, most likely, some do. Hopefully you don&#8217;t say to yourself, &#8220;Oh god of Mars, strike down this person who said that evil thing about me.&#8221; But you may be hoping for some harm to befall someone who hurt you. It&#8217;s possible the wish for revenge may be the momentary point of your life, as it becomes for many when they feel betrayed. So, in case this isn&#8217;t yet clear to you, realized or not, these hopes or wishes &#8212; all such expectations &#8212; are a form of prayer.<\/p>\n<p>When beset by troubles, how many of us have ever thought: &#8220;Why is this happening to someone as nice as me?&#8221; We&#8217;re forever telling ourselves, &#8220;I don&#8217;t deserve this kind of pain! My life is not supposed to be spinning out of control!&#8221; So we pray &#8212; in one form or another &#8212; for something that we think is either connected to what we want or <em>to<\/em> something that&#8217;s greater than the condition we perceive is punishing us. What we don&#8217;t yet understand is that within these prayers, whatever form they may take, we&#8217;re praying for something that we don&#8217;t understand. And <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">this<\/span> is why life continues to bring us the very things we say we don&#8217;t want.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The following may shock you, and I hope it comes as just that. Everyone practices prayer twenty-four hours a day . . . only neither do they know they&#8217;re praying, nor do they know (and this is the real problem) what it is they&#8217;re praying for! 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