{"id":1083,"date":"2011-11-28T03:00:09","date_gmt":"2011-11-28T08:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lettinggo\/?p=1083"},"modified":"2011-11-28T13:05:08","modified_gmt":"2011-11-28T18:05:08","slug":"choose-to-remember-the-light","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lettinggo\/2011\/11\/choose-to-remember-the-light.html","title":{"rendered":"Choose to Remember the Light"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Since the truth is that we do not have to share a single moment with the memory of anything that we don\u2019t want to, this means there is something in our present nature that wants to recall painful past experiences. Such new self-knowledge lends us the light we need to make higher choices for ourselves, based in conscious awareness. Now we can choose to remember what it is that we want to! In other words, rather than allowing ourselves to be drawn into battle with unwanted thoughts or feelings that appear by themselves within our heart and mind, we can do something completely new. We can choose not to focus on what these troubled states want us to; we know that\u2019s the road to ruin. Instead we will choose to remember what it is that we want above all else &#8212; the Light of Truth that not only reveals what has been hurting us, but that frees us from these unconscious conditions at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>So, in that same moment when you realize that something painful from your past has again pressed its way into you, holding you hostage to a hated image or painful regret, here is what to do: right there, right in that Now, instead of capitulating into that familiar state of feeling yourself to be a captive of what this pain tells you that you must remember (along with all of its suggested solutions for ending the suffering), you choose to remember the Light. Here is a quick look at what this new inner action entails.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of being drawn into a struggle with that unwanted sense of conflict, complete with its cast of supporting characters drawn from your past, intentionally withdraw your attention from that stage show. And at the same time as you close the curtain on it, bring all of your reclaimed attention into the Now. Come awake to the sense of your own physical body. Observe what thoughts and feelings are pressing themselves into your awareness and, while working in the Now like this, welcome into you a conscious remembrance of the Light, of God\u2019s Life, of the whole truth as best you understand it.<\/p>\n<p>Choose to remember the Light. Let it fight for you. Not only will this Living Intelligence lift you above the fray of all that should be forgotten, but it also will guide you back home to a timeless place in yourself where the past no longer dwells.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since the truth is that we do not have to share a single moment with the memory of anything that we don\u2019t want to, this means there is something in our present nature that wants to recall painful past experiences. 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