1.0Letting Go with Guy Finleyhttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggoGuy Finleyhttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/author/gfinleyFree Yourself (and Others) from Unconscious Demands - Letting Go with Guy Finleyrich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="ggOjm874To"><a href="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/2018/09/free-others-unconscious-demands.html">Free Yourself (and Others) from Unconscious Demands</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/2018/09/free-others-unconscious-demands.html/embed#?secret=ggOjm874To" width="600" height="338" title="“Free Yourself (and Others) from Unconscious Demands” — Letting Go with Guy Finley" data-secret="ggOjm874To" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
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We can’t change others — or the purpose of any given moment as it unfolds; but we can work to place one less demand upon both. Only in this action can we hope to find the freedom for which we seek, because the only thing that imprisons us — in the end — is our…http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/files/2018/09/Love-Cannot-Grow-8-27-18-300x300.png