1.0Letting Go with Guy Finleyhttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggoGuy Finleyhttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/author/gfinleySee This and Stop Creating What You Keep Complaining About! - Letting Go with Guy Finleyrich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="AsjnL4ZRNm"><a href="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/2016/09/see-stop-creating-keep-complaining.html">See This and Stop Creating What You Keep Complaining About!</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/2016/09/see-stop-creating-keep-complaining.html/embed#?secret=AsjnL4ZRNm" width="600" height="338" title="“See This and Stop Creating What You Keep Complaining About!” — Letting Go with Guy Finley" data-secret="AsjnL4ZRNm" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
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The fabric of the false self is made up from innumerable strands of experience woven together by an imaginary tailor who lives in terror that what it has made will unravel. This false self has its own unseen life; it maintains and sustains its many ‘I’s through a process of constant diversion. Its favorite devise for…