{"id":81,"date":"2009-08-27T16:20:00","date_gmt":"2009-08-27T16:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/08\/transform-your-environment-with-sacred-spaces.html"},"modified":"2009-08-27T16:20:00","modified_gmt":"2009-08-27T16:20:00","slug":"transform-your-environment-with-sacred-spaces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/08\/transform-your-environment-with-sacred-spaces.html","title":{"rendered":"Transform Your Environment with Sacred Spaces"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_W3h59OgJIAA\/SpbyNFO3sNI\/AAAAAAAABDI\/p0JiMzH4pT4\/s1600-h\/Asha_headshot.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt;float: left;cursor: pointer;width: 150px;height: 200px\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_W3h59OgJIAA\/SpbyNFO3sNI\/AAAAAAAABDI\/p0JiMzH4pT4\/s200\/Asha_headshot.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a> <\/span>              <!--StartFragment-->  <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNoteLevel2\" style=\"text-align: left;font-family: georgia\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\">I&#8217;m a big believer in creating an environment both where you live and where you work that reflects your spirit. It should be organized and have at least some personal touches that make you feel good. So I&#8217;m delighted to have as my guest today, <\/span><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.anandapaloalto.org\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold\">Asha Praver<\/span><\/a>, lecturer, teacher, counselor, Spiritual Co-Director of the Ananda Palo Alto Community, and author of <i>Swami Kriyananda as We Have Known Him<\/i>.<br \/>\n<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNoteLevel2\" style=\"text-align: center;font-family: georgia\" align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><br \/>\n<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNoteLevel2\" style=\"text-align: center;font-family: georgia\" align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><b><span>Transform Your Environment with Sacred Spaces<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNoteLevel2\" style=\"text-align: center;font-family: georgia\" align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\">By <span style=\"font-weight: bold\">Asha Praver<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\">We don\u2019t <i>create<\/i> the holiness of life. We <i>remember<\/i> it. Just behind the mundane, the divine, is always hovering. How much of that divinity we experience is a matter of where we put our attention. All of spiritual practice is learning to stay focused on the deeper reality behind the everyday events of life.<br \/>\n<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<br \/><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold\">A simple way to help you remember is to create within your home or work environment sacred spaces.<\/span> They don\u2019t have to be large, elaborate, or expensive. You don\u2019t have to shock your co-workers or add a room to your house. In fact many small spaces are often better than one large one. With several, wherever you are, you will be reminded.<br \/>\n<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<br \/><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\">Sacred spaces, however, should not be shrines to the things of this world you already love. Photos of loved ones, mementos of places you\u2019ve been, pictures of things you\u2019d like to acquire should be kept elsewhere in your environment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<br \/><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold\">Sacred spaces are to help you attune to the transcendent reality <\/span><i>behind<\/i><span style=\"font-weight: bold\"> these cherished loves, experiences, and desires.<\/span> \u201cSeek ye first the Kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\">Here are three simple guidelines for setting up your sacred spaces.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<br \/><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><b><span>1. Put your sacred spaces wherever you spend the most time.<\/span><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> You want to see them when you enter and leave the house, wash the dishes, work at the computer, talk on the phone, or first wake up in the morning. Put them near, but not in the actual workflow. A wall or a window ledge, for example, is usually better than your nightstand, desk, or the kitchen counter, where everyday clutter can easily encroach on them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<br \/><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><b><span>2. Keep them simple.<\/span><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> Your sacred spaces should have an immediate spiritual impact on you. Choose things of inherent power that have personal meaning. Sacred symbols like the cross, Star of David, or AUM, or items from Nature work well.<span>  <\/span>Images of gurus or saints, especially if the consciousness in the eyes is clearly visible, are ideal. Make the Dalai Lama, Mother Theresa, Paramhansa Yogananda, or Jesus Christ your everyday companion. Word messages are also good, especially if you can get the meaning at a glance. \u201cHope.\u201d \u201cFaith.\u201d \u201cGod Loves You.\u201d Everyone needs to be reminded.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<br \/><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><b><span>3. Keep it fresh.<\/span><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> Don\u2019t let dust, dead flowers, or burned out candles accumulate on your sacred spaces! If you are neglecting the sacred spaces in your outer environment it probably means you need to give more attention to your inner self as well. If what you have placed there no longer inspires you, then start over. Keep trying until you find those images that resonate with your soul and have an enduring capacity to lift your consciousness. Making a sacred space is a spiritual journey in itself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<br \/><span style=\"font-size:85%\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\">=======================<\/span><\/p>\n<p>  <span style=\"font-family: georgia;font-size:85%\"><b><span>About the Author: <\/span><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia;font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%\">Asha Praver is a lecturer, teacher, counselor, Spiritual Co-Director of the Ananda Palo Alto Community, and author of <i>Swami Kriyananda as We Have Known Him<\/i>.  Asha has been trained in yoga, meditation, and spiritual living by Swami Kriyananda, who was a direct disciple of Paramhansa Yogananda.  Since 1969 Asha has been a disciple, a meditator, and an intentional community member. C<i>lasses on love and relationships by Asha Praver, can be found in the \u201c<\/i>Talks\/Newsletters: CD purchase\u201d<i> section of <\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.anandapaloalto.org\/\">www.anandapaloalto.org<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia;font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%\">.<\/p>\n<p><\/span>              <!--StartFragment-->  <\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: georgia\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:85%\">If you enjoyed my post, please leave a comment and\/or click on the bookmark and write a short review at some of the sites, especially Stumbleupon and Digg. 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