{"id":5618,"date":"2014-07-08T12:01:14","date_gmt":"2014-07-08T16:01:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5618"},"modified":"2014-07-07T22:55:03","modified_gmt":"2014-07-08T02:55:03","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-its-for-the-best","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/07\/law-of-attraction-in-action-its-for-the-best.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: \u201cIt\u2019s for the best\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"LOAlogoBLOG\"<\/a>This is post 289 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to attract all that you need. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0 to see how.<\/p>\n

People get confused when they\u2019re trying to manifest if something doesn\u2019t work out or if things don\u2019t go according to what they asked for. That\u2019s how it goes, especially when you\u2019re asking for what\u2019s best for your highest good. When something you want badly falls through or has glitches, do you get angry, frustrated, disappointed or lose faith? Next time try acceptance in faith instead! I used to get those negative emotions and suffered from them.<\/p>\n

Now I just say, \u201cIt\u2019s for the best.\u201d Blessedly, I actually believe it so it\u2019s said with trust.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve written in other posts about how everything happens for a reason. You can fight that or work with it. The latter brings you peace and gives you the best chance of attracting what you need at the right time. For example, a client sold her house. She was supposed to move the day before the closing and was all set when the closing got postponed for 10 days. She flipped out. When I told her \u201cIt\u2019s for the best\u201d and she acted like I had two heads.<\/p>\n

She had to reschedule to movers and alter her arrangements for the apartment she was moving to. What a pain! She wondered how she could say, \u201cIt\u2019s for the best?\u201d I got an argument. But I insisted she do her best to say it like she meant it. The day she was originally supposed to move, she called. It seems that a major storm came through her area that day. If the closing hadn\u2019t been postponed, she\u2019d have been moving in the storm and her stuff would have gotten soaked. She conceded, it really was for the best!<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what\u2019s coming down the road, but the Universe does. The more you trust, the more you can know that it\u2019s okay when things don\u2019t go smoothly.<\/p>\n

Aclient called me one morning. She was very upset. Her baby sitter was an hour late so she\u2019d be late for work. I told he to say, \u201cIt\u2019s for the best.\u201d And believe it. It was for the best. She was headed to the World Trade Center on 9\/11! Because her sitter was late, she avoided being caught in the building collapse, which she was grateful for..<\/p>\n

My faith is strong enough to go with the flow of what happens instead of getting upset. Just yesterday I was running late and ran to catch the local subway train. The doors closed as I got there. At first I was mad. Thirty seconds sooner and I\u2019d have made it! Then I remembered, \u201cIt was for the best.\u201d I calmed down and another train pulled in 3 minutes later. It went one stop, where I had to change for the express train. As we pulled in to the station, I was surprised that we were on the express track. They switched my local to be the express I needed.<\/p>\n

I had a seat and people from the train before me got on and had to stand! Missing the first train was for the best!<\/p>\n

Saying, \u201cIt\u2019s for the best,\u201d puts you in positive spirits. It tells the Universe that you trust that you\u2019ll get what you need in the right time.<\/p>\n

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE.<\/strong><\/a>
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