{"id":5587,"date":"2014-06-17T22:42:33","date_gmt":"2014-06-18T02:42:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5587"},"modified":"2014-06-17T22:42:33","modified_gmt":"2014-06-18T02:42:33","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-delegating-responsibility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/06\/law-of-attraction-in-action-delegating-responsibility.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: Delegating Responsibility"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/files\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1629\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/91\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG-231x300.jpg\" alt=\"LOAlogoBLOG\" width=\"231\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>This is post 287 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html%20\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong> <\/a>to see how.<\/p>\n<p>I used to own a summer recreation program. While I had an assistant, I did everything myself. I created a lot of stress for myself by taking on too much stuff that he could have done. When someone asked me why I paid someone to assist me but didn\u2019t let him assist me, I realized I was being too controlling and needed to delegate responsibility to him, and I did. My life got better with tasks off of my plate.<\/p>\n<p>Many of us have a hard time delegating responsibility to someone else. It might be from a need to control everything, or you\u2019re scared the other person won\u2019t do it as well as you. This tells the Universe you\u2019d rather struggle and work extra hard than to accept assistance. That also negates your allowing yourself to have\u00a0 good well-being since you&#8217;d rather have stress\u00a0 by doing everything yourself..<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to lighten up and make your life easier. Give yourself more time to relax and enjoy your life more. Love yourself enough to delegate to competent people. . Accept that you shouldn\u2019t have to do it all. When I delegated to my assistant, my stress level went down dramatically., I was so much happier. And you know what a happy vibe attracts\u2014good stuff! And it did for me.<\/p>\n<p>See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html%20\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>************<\/p>\n<p>Join <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>The Self-Love Movement\u2122!<\/strong><\/a> Take the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>31 Days of Self-Love Commitment<\/strong><\/a>&#8212;<strong>\u201cI commit to do my best to do something loving for myself, however big or small, for <strong><strong>the next 31 days<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0and get my book, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\" target=\"_blank\">How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> for free at <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/\">http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a><\/strong>. Read my 2014 31 Days of Self-Love Posts <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5224\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>. Join the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Self-Love Movement\u2122<\/strong><\/a>! on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TheSelfLoveMovement\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>. Watch the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=aYnktf84aPA\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>video<\/strong><\/a> made with Hoobastank&#8217;s song&#8211;The reason&#8211;that illustrates the power of self-love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is post 287 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how. I used to own a summer recreation program. 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