{"id":5459,"date":"2014-04-22T12:01:35","date_gmt":"2014-04-22T16:01:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5459"},"modified":"2014-04-12T21:57:45","modified_gmt":"2014-04-13T01:57:45","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-making-the-best-of-what-happens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/04\/law-of-attraction-in-action-making-the-best-of-what-happens.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: Making the Best of What Happens"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"LOAlogoBLOG\"<\/a>This is post 281 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong><\/a> to see how.<\/p>\n

Things don\u2019t always go the way you planned or hoped for. That\u2019s how life works. But when that happens, it\u2019s important to keep negative emotions at bay, because they will keep you from manifesting what you need next.\u00a0 Remember\u2014all negative emotions affect your vibration, which needs to be highly positive to help the Law of Attraction to work in your favor. Your response to your situation can help you attract more, or block it.<\/p>\n

So what can you do when you\u2019re feeling disappointed, or very upset with an outcome? Make the best of whatever happened! When you do that, you\u2019ll attract better stuff in the future. If you focus on making the best of what-is, no matter what it is, it\u2019s easier to manifest in the future.<\/p>\n

For example, my client Ben called me when he didn\u2019t get the position he\u2019d applied or in his company. He was very upset and began to badmouth his boss for not going to bat or him. When I advised him to make the best of it, he didn\u2019t think he could. He was angry. I asked him to focus on his blessings. He went to work grateful that he still had a decent job, even if he didn\u2019t get the one he wanted.<\/p>\n

Ben focused on his pleasant work environment and the people he enjoyed working with and let go of his anger about not getting the promotion he wanted so badly. Two months later his boss offered him an even better opportunity. Now Ben\u2019s vibration got strong. Had he let his disappointment rule his attitude and outlook on the future, he may not have gotten his great new job.<\/p>\n

Making the best of whatever happens to you helps you move forward with a good vibration. That feeds the Law of Attraction\u2019s ability to help you manifest good things and people who make your life brighter.<\/p>\n

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE<\/strong><\/a>.
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