{"id":5408,"date":"2014-04-01T12:01:16","date_gmt":"2014-04-01T16:01:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5408"},"modified":"2014-03-19T21:21:40","modified_gmt":"2014-03-20T01:21:40","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-trusting-the-process","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/04\/law-of-attraction-in-action-trusting-the-process.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: Trusting the Process"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"LOAlogoBLOG\"<\/a>This is post 278 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong> <\/a>to see how.<\/p>\n

I had a client who needed to manifest a new client for his company. Business had been slow and he was scared he might get laid off. He complained that he had been telling the Universe what he needed but the Law of Attraction didn\u2019t work for him. He assured me that he was doing what he could to have a strong vibration but it didn\u2019t work. Many people give up when they don\u2019t get what they want in the the time they want it. I hear comments like:<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cGod must not like me.\u201d
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cIf it hasn\u2019t happened by now, it won\u2019t.\u201d
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cWhy do other people manifest easily but not me?\u201d
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cWhat\u2019s wrong with me?\u201d
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cWhat am I doing wrong?\u201d<\/p>\n

I can answer the last question. My client lost his patience and gave up. If you lose faith and don\u2019t trust the process of manifesting with the Law of Attraction, your vibration also gives off doubt and fear. It\u2019s important to trust that you will get what you want\u2014at the right time. Years ago I was going after a book deal for a title I believed in. My agent at the time gave up on it after it was turned down by many editors. My vibration was strong and my agent\u2019s colleague offered to try to shop it. No deal! I was advised to give up.<\/p>\n

I refused and kept affirming I had the right deal at the right time. A year later I met an agent who loved what I told her about the book. She agreed to take it on. Shortly after I got a better deal than anyone ever expected\u2014except for me. An editor that my agent knew was just moving to a new job and was looking for a book like mine. So it was the perfect time to find that agent.<\/p>\n

“Trust is all about fearing less and loving more.” ~ Unknown<\/p>\n

I loved me, and my book a lot. I wasn\u2019t scared of not getting a deal. I trusted that the right one would come at the right time. That\u2019s how the process works. It was the right deal for that book. And because I trusted the process, I didn\u2019t give up. It\u2019s important to accept that you manifest what\u2019s for your highest good. You may not be ready for what you want.\u00a0 When you can trust, and have the patience to wait as I discussed in my post, Law of Attraction in Action: Patience<\/strong><\/a>, you have the best chance of manifesting your desires.<\/p>\n

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE<\/strong><\/a>.
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