{"id":5315,"date":"2014-02-25T12:01:19","date_gmt":"2014-02-25T17:01:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5315"},"modified":"2014-02-25T21:55:28","modified_gmt":"2014-02-26T02:55:28","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-abundance-vs-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/02\/law-of-attraction-in-action-abundance-vs-money.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: Abundance vs. Money"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/files\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1629\" alt=\"LOAlogoBLOG\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/91\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG-231x300.jpg\" width=\"231\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>This is post 273 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0 to see how.<\/p>\n<p>We often ask for more abundance when we\u2019re trying to manifest more money. When I was writing <strong>T<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/039916409X\/daylledeannaschw\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>apping into Wealth: How Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Can Help You Clear the Path to Making More Money<\/strong><\/a>,\u00a0 with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.margaretmlynch.com\" target=\"_blank\">Margaret M. Lynch<\/a>, the leading expert for finding and clearing blocks to getting more money, I became enlightened about the difference between desiring money and desiring abundance.<\/p>\n<p>Abundance is a very generalized concept that often relates to money when you have a spiritual perspective. But, abundance doesn\u2019t necessarily mean money\u2014actual cold hard cash! Since abundance is just a concept, wanting it doesn\u2019t create the kind of vibration needed to manifest. And the Law of Attraction may not recognize that you want more money.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re taught to include all the riches we have\u2014family and friends, love, good health, a nice home, joy, etc.\u2014under the umbrella of abundance. It sounds good, and can make you feel better for the moment about not having more money. There\u2019s nothing wrong with seeking that kind of abundance. But thinking in those terms can distract you from telling the Universe you want more money. Sometimes that mindset can make you feel guilty about wanting lots more cold cash and\/or get you off the track for creating it. Seeking to increase abundance can seem like a more spiritual mindset, while focusing on just getting more money can seem shallow.\u00a0 Desiring more money out loud can almost seem as if you don\u2019t appreciate all the blessings of your abundance.<\/p>\n<p>Asking for money can seem very unspiritual or greedy. Some of us have blocks that keep us from attracting money. You may have been given a negative picture of what happens if your income gets a lot bigger. Asking for more money can trigger old negative messages, fear of changing if you get more money, fear of not fitting in with your family. If you can, do EFT (Tapping)\u00a0 to clear your blocks.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, you can\u2019t pay bills with abundance! Nor can you get a better lifestyle if you can\u2019t pay for it.<br \/>\nIf you want a lot more money, you need to focus directly on increasing your income. Of course you can also appreciate other kinds of abundance, as long as you focus on money when that\u2019s what you want. It\u2019s important to be clear about what you tell the Universe so the Law of Attraction knows exactly what you want.<\/p>\n<p>If you want more money, specifically ask for it. You can build a strong vibration to greatly increase your wealth by both feeling gratitude about all your blessings and focusing on creating much more abundance in dollars and cents. Enjoy any non-money abundance that comes to you but keep more money on your mind. Abundance comprises all your blessings. Separate it from the money you want and focus on the good feelings you\u2019ll have when you the Law of Attraction works in your favor. Save abundance for when you\u2019re counting your blessings.<\/p>\n<p>See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>.<br \/>\n************<\/p>\n<p>Join <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>The Self-Love Movement\u2122!<\/strong><\/a> Take the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>31 Days of Self-Love Commitment<\/strong><\/a>&#8212;<strong>\u201cI commit to do my best to do something loving for myself, however big or small, for <strong><strong>the next 31 days<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0and get my book, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\" target=\"_blank\">How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> for free at <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/\">http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a><\/strong>. Read my 2014 31 Days of Self-Love Posts <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5224\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>. Join the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Self-Love Movement\u2122<\/strong><\/a>! on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TheSelfLoveMovement\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>. Watch the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=aYnktf84aPA\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>video<\/strong><\/a> made with Hoobastank&#8217;s song&#8211;The reason&#8211;that illustrates the power of self-love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is post 273 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! 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