{"id":530,"date":"2011-02-23T12:01:00","date_gmt":"2011-02-23T12:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/02\/i-love-me-tip-create-a-self-love-sheet.html"},"modified":"2011-02-23T12:01:00","modified_gmt":"2011-02-23T12:01:00","slug":"i-love-me-tip-create-a-self-love-sheet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/02\/i-love-me-tip-create-a-self-love-sheet.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I Love Me&#8221; Tip: Create a Self-Love Sheet"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/assets_c\/2011\/01\/HowDoILoveMeCover-thumb-199x268-19744-thumb-199x268-19745-thumb-199x268-20233-thumb-199x268-20601-thumb-199x268-20629-thumb-199x268-20643.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for HowDoILoveMeCover.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/91\/import\/assets_c\/2011\/01\/HowDoILoveMeCover-thumb-199x268-19744-thumb-199x268-19745-thumb-199x268-20233-thumb-199x268-20601-thumb-199x268-20629-thumb-199x268-20643-thumb-199x268-20662.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt\" height=\"268\" width=\"199\" \/><\/a><\/span>I continue to write about the importance of doing something loving for yourself every day. That&#8217;s why my 31 Days of Self-Love Challenge is still going strong. Whenever you sign it, you would do something kind for you for the next 31 days. To help you do that, I advise you keeping track of what you do every day.<\/p>\n<p>Take a sheet of a paper and title it &#8220;How I Showed Myself Love Today.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Space the days of the week evenly down it and put lines between each. Make copies. Each Monday start a new sheet. Note the date and write everything loving you did. Include simple things like saying &#8220;I love me;&#8221; refraining from a bad habit one time; leaving some cake on your plate; taking a walk&#8211;anything kind you do for you. Have at least one for each day but list as many as you do. <\/p>\n<p>Keep the list where you can see it as a reminder that you deserve love. This will create consciousness about being more loving to YOU. As you smile more from the loving things you do, self-love grows. Say &#8220;I love me&#8221; every day and reap the rewards of stronger self-love!<\/p>\n<p>Take the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\"><b>31 Days of Self-Love Challenge<\/b><\/a> and get my book, <b><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\">How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/b> for free at <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/\">http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a>. And you can post your loving acts <b><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/post-self-love-actions\">HERE<\/a><\/b> to reinforce your intention to love yourself. Read my 31 Days of Self-Love Posts <b><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/02\/31-days-of-self-love-posts.html\">HERE<\/a><\/b>. <\/p>\n<p>Please leave comments under my posts so we can stay connected.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I continue to write about the importance of doing something loving for yourself every day. 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