{"id":5260,"date":"2014-02-04T12:01:36","date_gmt":"2014-02-04T17:01:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5260"},"modified":"2014-02-03T21:12:05","modified_gmt":"2014-02-04T02:12:05","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-the-reason-for-good-in-your-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/02\/law-of-attraction-in-action-the-reason-for-good-in-your-life.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: THE REASON for Good in Your Life"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"LOAlogoBLOG\"<\/a>This is post 270 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0 to see how.<\/p>\n

People pleasers often complain that they do so much good for others but don\u2019t attract good for themselves, even though they put their desires out. I felt the same way when I was a DoorMat. It\u2019s harder to manifest when your good isn\u2019t THE REASON that you want to be happy.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to love yourself when you\u2019re a DoorMat, thinking about the happiness and welfare of others over yourself. That tells the Universe that your desires and needs aren\u2019t your priority so your vibration gets skewed. I began The Self-Love Movement\u2122 to help people build enough self-love to want to make themselves important enough to be THE REASON for good self-care and being happy.<\/p>\n

Self-love can be THE REASON you manifest or not. If what you want is tied to someone else, the Universe may see that as you believing you don\u2019t matter. When your desire comes from a place of self love, the fervor in that desire creates a strong vibration\u2014of wanting and deserving it.<\/p>\n

Self-love can be THE REASON:<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0That you give yourself good self-care
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0That you finally accept yourself in your own skin
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0That you break unhealthy habits
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0That you cut toxic people out of your life
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0That you go after your dreams<\/p>\n

That kind of motivation attracts support from the Law of Attraction. When your reason for wanting something is to please someone else, there\u2019s usually no passion behind it, though there can be some negative emotions driving your desire to please\u2014such as fear of not being liked, guilt that you have an underlying feeling that you did something wrong, or feeling undeserving of asking for something for yourself yourself. And as I\u2019ve said many times, underlying negative emotions keep your vibration for manifesting low.<\/p>\n

Make sure YOU and your well-being is THE REASON for what you want. Tell the Law of Attraction that you really want to manifest for your good. Feel the love! Let self-love motivate and spark your vibration to get good stuff for YOU! I made the video below to emphasize that point. Please watch it and forward it to everyone you can<\/p>\n