{"id":523,"date":"2011-02-02T12:01:00","date_gmt":"2011-02-02T12:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/02\/31-days-of-self-love-posts.html"},"modified":"2011-02-02T12:01:00","modified_gmt":"2011-02-02T12:01:00","slug":"31-days-of-self-love-posts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/02\/31-days-of-self-love-posts.html","title":{"rendered":"31 Days of Self-Love Posts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/assets_c\/2011\/01\/HowDoILoveMeCover-thumb-199x268-19744-thumb-199x268-19745-thumb-199x268-20233-thumb-199x268-20601-thumb-199x268-20629-thumb-199x268-20643-thumb-199x268-20662-thumb-199x268-20663.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for HowDoILoveMeCover.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/91\/import\/assets_c\/2011\/01\/HowDoILoveMeCover-thumb-199x268-19744-thumb-199x268-19745-thumb-199x268-20233-thumb-199x268-20601-thumb-199x268-20629-thumb-199x268-20643-thumb-199x268-20662-thumb-199x268-20663-thumb-199x268-20664.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt\" height=\"268\" width=\"199\" \/><\/a><\/span>Now that Self-Love Month is over, it&#8217;s important to not forget the importance of giving yourself love as much as you can. I highly recommend you read my free book, <b><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\">How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/b> and if you haven&#8217;t done it already, take the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\"><b>31 Days of Self-Love Challenge<\/b><\/a> While I will continue to give &#8220;I love me&#8221; tips, I wanted to recap all the articles here in case you want to go back and find the ones that helped you the most.<\/p>\n<p>Day 1: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/begin-the-new-year-with-self-love.html\">Begin the New Year with Self-Love<\/a><br \/>Day 2: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/looking-for-love-in-all-the-wrong-places.html\">Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places<\/a><br \/>Day 3: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/self-love-habits.html\">Self-Love Habits<\/a><br \/>Day 4: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/law-of-attraction-in-action-self-love.html\">Law of Attraction in Action: Self-Love<\/a><br \/>Day 5: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/i-love-me-tip-buy-a-brand-name-product.html\">&#8220;I Love Me&#8221; Tip: Buy a Brand Name Product<\/a><br \/>Day 6: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/the-right-best-friend--you.html\">The Right Best Friend&#8211;YOU<br \/><\/a>Day 7: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/what-youre-not-vs-what-you-are.html\">What You&#8217;re Not vs. What You Are<br \/><\/a>Day 8: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/i-love-me-tip-say-i-love-me-as-often-as-possible.html\">&#8220;I Love Me&#8221; Tip: Say &#8220;I Love Me&#8221; As Often As Possible<br \/><\/a>Day 9: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/boost-self-love-with-self-care.html\">Boost Self-Love with Self-Care<br \/><\/a>Day 10: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/why-we-stay-stuck.html\">Why We Stay Stuck<br \/><\/a>Day 11: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/law-of-attraction-in-action-your-body.html\">Law of Attraction in Action: Your Body<br \/><\/a>Day 12: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/losing-weight-with-self-compassion.html\">Losing Weight with Self-Compassion<br \/><\/a>Day 13: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/i-love-me-tip-say-schedule-a-me-day.html\">&#8220;I Love Me&#8221; Tip: Say Schedule a &#8220;ME Day&#8221;<br \/><\/a>Day 14: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/do-you-choose-to-be-a-victim.html\">Do You Choose to Be a Victim?<br \/><\/a>Day 15: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/i-love-me-tip-self-hugs.html\">&#8220;I Love Me&#8221; Tip: Self-Hugs<br \/><\/a>Day 16: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/using-meditation-to-fall-in-love-with-you.html\">Using Meditation to Fall in Love with You<\/a><br \/>Day 17: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/self-love-tip-learn-from-dr-martin-luther-king-jr.html\">Self-Love Tip: Learn from Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.<br \/><\/a>Day 18: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/law-of-attraction-in-action-resistance.html\">Law of Attraction in Action: Resistance<br \/><\/a>Day 19: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/lowering-resistance-part-2.html\">Lowering Resistance Part 2<br \/><\/a>Day 2: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/finding-self-love-in-a-challenging-life.html\">Finding Self-love in a Challenging Life<br \/><\/a>Day 21: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/i-love-me-tip-let-faith-support-you-1.html\">&#8220;I Love Me&#8221; 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Here Are Some Ways<\/a><br \/>Day 28: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/redefining-love-life.html\">Redefining Love Life<br \/><\/a>Day 29: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/be-your-own-best-diplomat.html\">Be Your Own Best Diplomat<br \/><\/a>Day 30: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/i-love-me-tip-consciously-make-an-effort-to-eat-healthier.html\">&#8220;I Love Me!&#8221; Tip: Consciously Make An Effort To Eat Healthier<\/a><br \/>Day 31: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/01\/what-self-love-is-and-isnt.html\">What Self-Love Is and Isn&#8217;t<br \/>&nbsp;<\/a><br \/>Please spread the word to let people know about my Self-Love initiative with the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\"><b>31 Days of Self-Love Challenge<\/b><\/a> and free book, <b><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\">How Do I Love Me? 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