{"id":5224,"date":"2014-02-03T12:01:18","date_gmt":"2014-02-03T17:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5224"},"modified":"2014-02-07T22:17:54","modified_gmt":"2014-02-08T03:17:54","slug":"31-days-of-self-love-2014","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/02\/31-days-of-self-love-2014.html","title":{"rendered":"31 Days of Self-Love 2014"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Self-Love Month is over\u00a0 but the love shouldn&#8217;t be!\u00a0 it&#8217;s important to not forget the importance of giving yourself love as much as you can. If you haven&#8217;t already done do, I highly recommend you read my free book, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\">How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> and take the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\"><strong>31 Days of Self-Love Challenge<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In case you want to catch up on the 2013 31 days of self-love posts, they\u2019re all listed here. Read through them when you need strength at time that you find your self-love waning. You deserve love, so give it to you!While I&#8217;ll continue to give tips for building self-love, I wanted to recap all the articles here in case you want to go back and read some for motivation with making yours stronger. Please forward this to anyone who needs to love themselves more and who might benefit from reading these:<\/p>\n<p>Day 1: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/happy-2014.html\" target=\"_blank\">Happy 2014!<\/a><br \/>\nDay 2: F<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/from-thinking-i-was-a-piece-of-crap-to-loving-me.html\" target=\"_blank\">rom Thinking I Was a Piece of Crap to Loving Me<\/a><br \/>\nDay 3: W<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/why-self-acceptance-is-the-most-delicious-dish.html\" target=\"_blank\">hy Self-Acceptance Is the Most Delicious Dish<\/a><br \/>\nDay 4: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/i-love-me-tip-use-heat-or-cold-to-soothe-yourself.html\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;I Love Me&#8221;Tip:Use Heat or Cold to Soothe Yourself<\/a><br \/>\nDay 5:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/why-you-should-improve-your-posture.html\" target=\"_blank\"> Why You Should Improve Your Posture<\/a><br \/>\nDay 6: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/are-you-a-bully-to-yourself.html\" target=\"_blank\">Are You a Bully to Yourself?<\/a><br \/>\nDay 7: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/law-of-attraction-in-action-limits.html\" target=\"_blank\">Law of Attraction in Action: Limits<\/a><br \/>\nDay 8:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/i-love-me-tip-say-kind-reassuring-word-to-yourself.html\" target=\"_blank\"> \u201cI Love Me\u201d Tip: Say Kind, Reassuring Words to Yourself<\/a><br \/>\nDay 9: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/how-do-i-love-me-suggestions-from-pros-2014.html\" target=\"_blank\">How Do I Love Me? Suggestions from Pros 2014<\/a><br \/>\nDay 10: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/who-matters-the-most.html\" target=\"_blank\">Who Matters the Most?<\/a><br \/>\nDay 11:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/i-love-me-tip-love-your-heart.html\" target=\"_blank\"> &#8220;I Love Me&#8221; Tip: Love Your Heart<\/a><br \/>\nDay 12:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/is-falling-in-love-always-good.html\" target=\"_blank\">Is Falling in Love Always Good?<\/a><br \/>\nDay 13: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/love-your-tummy.html\" target=\"_blank\">Love Your Tummy<\/a><br \/>\nDay 14: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/law-of-attraction-in-action-i-am-worthy.html\" target=\"_blank\">Law of Attraction in Action: &#8220;I Am Worthy&#8221;<\/a><br \/>\nDay 15: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/i-love-me-tip-affirm-self-love.html\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;I Love Me&#8221; Tip: Affirm Self -Love<\/a><br \/>\nDay 16: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/how-do-i-love-me-more-suggestions-from-pros-2014.html\" target=\"_blank\">How Do I Love Me? More Suggestions from Pros 2014<\/a><br \/>\nDay 17: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/making-peace-with-you.html\" target=\"_blank\">Making Peace with You<\/a><br \/>\nDay 18: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/i-love-me-tip-finish-one-thing.html\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;I Love Me&#8221; Tip: Finish One Thing<\/a><br \/>\nDay 19: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/what-do-you-say-when-you-look-at-yourself-in-the-mirror.html\" target=\"_blank\">What Do You Say When You Look at Yourself in the Mirror?<\/a><br \/>\nDay 20: W<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/why-its-fun-to-be-perfectly-imperfect.html\" target=\"_blank\">hy It&#8217;s Fun to Be Perfectly Imperfect<\/a><br \/>\nDay 21: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/law-of-attraction-in-action-tapping-for-better-self-esteem.html\" target=\"_blank\">Law of Attraction in Action: Tapping for Better Self Esteem<\/a><br \/>\nDay 22:\u00a0 &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/i-love-me-tip-find-mental-mentors.html\" target=\"_blank\">I Love Me&#8221; Tip: Find Mental Mentors<\/a><br \/>\nDay 23: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/show-yourself-love-with-tai-chi.html\" target=\"_blank\">Show Yourself Love with T\u2019ai Chi<\/a><br \/>\nDay 24: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/start-an-inner-revolution.html\" target=\"_blank\">Start an Inner Revolution<\/a><br \/>\nDay 25: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/i-love-me-tip-list-why-i-deserve-the-best.html\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;I Love Me&#8221; Tip: &#8220;Why I Deserve the\u00a0 Best&#8221;<\/a><br \/>\nDay 26: H<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/how-do-i-love-me-more-suggestions-from-pros-2014-part-3.html\" target=\"_blank\">ow Do I Love Me? More Suggestions from Pros 2014 part 3<\/a><br \/>\nDay 27: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/write-a-best-friend-manifesto.html\" target=\"_blank\">Write a Best Friend Manifesto<\/a><br \/>\nDay 28: <a href=\"\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/i-love-me-tip-create-a-self-esteem-checklist.html\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cI Love Me\u201d Tip: Create a Self-Esteem Checklist<\/a><br \/>\nDay 29: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/law-of-attraction-in-action-giving-your-talents-away-for-free.html\" target=\"_blank\">Law of Attraction in Action: Giving Your Talents Away for Free<\/a><br \/>\nDay 30: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5219\" target=\"_blank\">A True Self-Love Story<\/a><br \/>\nDay 31: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5231&amp;\" target=\"_blank\">Do Unto Yourself as You Do for Others<\/a><\/p>\n<p>*************<\/p>\n<p>Join <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>The Self-Love Movement\u2122!<\/strong><\/a> Take the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>31 Days of Self-Love Commitment<\/strong><\/a>&#8212;<strong>\u201cI commit to do my best to do something loving for myself, however big or small, for <strong><strong>the next 31 days<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0and get my book, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\" target=\"_blank\">How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> for free at <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/\">http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a><\/strong>. Read my 2013 31 Days of Self-Love Posts <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2013\/02\/3961.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>. Join the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Self-Love Movement\u2122<\/strong><\/a>! on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TheSelfLoveMovement\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>. Watch the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=aYnktf84aPA\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>video<\/strong><\/a> made with Hoobastank&#8217;s son&#8211;The reason&#8211;that illustrates the power of self-love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Self-Love Month is over\u00a0 but the love shouldn&#8217;t be!\u00a0 it&#8217;s important to not forget the importance of giving yourself love as much as you can. If you haven&#8217;t already done do, I highly recommend you read my free book, How Do I Love Me? 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