{"id":5158,"date":"2014-01-14T12:01:29","date_gmt":"2014-01-14T17:01:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=5158"},"modified":"2014-01-08T21:04:51","modified_gmt":"2014-01-09T02:04:51","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-i-am-worthy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2014\/01\/law-of-attraction-in-action-i-am-worthy.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: \u201cI am worthy!\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Self-Love<\/a><\/p>\n

Today is Day 14 of my 31 Days of Self-Love posts to celebrate Self-Love Month<\/a><\/strong> with suggestions for jump-starting your own self-love and joining The Self-Love Movement<\/strong><\/a>\u2122.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"LOAlogoBLOG\"<\/a>This is post 267 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action<\/strong> <\/a>Series to see how.<\/p>\n

You want good stuff\u2014more money, romance, great health, fun, a great job, etc.\u2014and wonder why you can’t attract any of it. You might get little tastes but the really good stuff doesn\u2019t seem to come your way. People come to me for counseling, confused about why they\u2019re not able to get manifesting right. They say the right thing and do their best to get their vibrations up. But, nothing happens. They ask things like:<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cWhy doesn\u2019t God like me enough to help me get what I want?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cWhat did I do to deserve this lack?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cAm I being punished for something I did in the past?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cWhat\u2019s wrong with me?\u201d<\/p>\n

Those kinds of statements send a message that you assume it\u2019s your fault because you\u2019re not worthy for one of those reasons. But it\u2019s not true! That message blocks what you want. When you tell the Universe you have doubts about your worthiness, it keeps you from attracting all the good you can. I know how that feels because for years I didn\u2019t feel worthy and kept putting out a vibration of feeling doubt about whether I could get what I wanted because of it.<\/p>\n

You can say all the right words and think you\u2019re sending out the right vibration. But the Law of Attraction will pick up any underlying feelings you might have about not feeling good enough to manifest your desires. After all, if you believe you\u2019re not fully worthy, why should you get them? I used to think I was too fat or not good enough to get beyond where I was or what I had. When I began to love me more, and take steps out of DoorMatville, my feelings of worthiness got stronger and more good stuff came to me.<\/p>\n

The more positive stuff I did for me, the more positive stuff I attracted. The further I got from DoorMatville, the stronger my positive vibration got. When I was able to say, \u201cI am worthy!\u201d out loud, with true belief and excitement, big things began to come to me. It can be easy to give lip service and say \u201cI am worthy\u201d by rote, instead of with feeling. It\u2019s much harder to get that feeling into how you say it. You do have to believe, at least a little. And havingself-love makes you believe!<\/p>\n

The more you build self-love, the easier it gets to say and mean it. You are worthy now, even if you don\u2019t think you are. You don\u2019t have to prove your worthiness. You just have to believe it. The more you say it, the more it sinks in and then the more you can say it with the passion that comes from loving yourself.\u00a0 I know that I am truly worthy to get anything I desire. Do you believe you are?<\/p>\n

Repeat, \u201cI am worthy!\u201d as much as you can.<\/p>\n

When you reach the point of believing, your vibration will be higher from that alone, and the rest of manifesting becomes easier. True feelings of worthiness fuels the Law of Attraction to bring you what you want.<\/p>\n

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE. http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html<\/p>\n

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Join The Self-Love Movement\u2122!<\/strong><\/a> Take the 31 Days of Self-Love Commitment<\/strong><\/a>—\u201cI commit to do my best to do something loving for myself, however big or small, for the next 31 days<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0and get my book, How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> for free at http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a><\/strong>. Read my 2013 31 Days of Self-Love Posts HERE<\/strong><\/a>. Join the Self-Love Movement\u2122<\/strong><\/a>! on Facebook<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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