{"id":4967,"date":"2013-12-03T12:01:23","date_gmt":"2013-12-03T17:01:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=4967"},"modified":"2013-11-23T11:44:00","modified_gmt":"2013-11-23T16:44:00","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-pride-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2013\/12\/law-of-attraction-in-action-pride-2.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: Pride"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"LOAlogoBLOG\"<\/a>This is post 262 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong><\/a> to see how.<\/p>\n

Some people view feeling pride as a negative quality. I\u2019ve had clients who excitedly share an accomplishment with me but when I ask if they\u2019re feeling proud and letting others know their mood changes. They\u2019re afraid people will react badly to their show of pride. I hear:<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cSomeone may get jealous and not like me.\u201d Don\u2019t you want friends who are happy for you?
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cIt may sound like bragging, which turns people off.\u201d Feeling good about what you\u2019ve done or earned isn\u2019t bragging. It\u2019s owning yourself.
\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cDon\u2019t people like us more when we\u2019re modest?\u201d That\u2019s a DoorMat\/people pleaser mentality of worrying that everyone will like you!<\/p>\n

Pride makes you excited, which creates a good vibration for the Law of Attraction to pick up on. Stifling it doesn\u2019t. Owning pride makes you feel very good about your path and ability to reach your goals. It fuels your vibration so the Law of Attraction can work with you. Not feeling pride tells the Universe that what you already manifested didn\u2019t matter to you, so it\u2019s harder to attract more.<\/p>\n

Red Aurbach said, \u201cTake pride in what you do. The kind of pride I’m talking about is not the arrogant puffed-up kind; it’s just the whole idea of caring – fiercely caring.” \u201cFiercely caring” feeds the vibration you need to keep getting desires met. So if you want to manifest more, joyously own what you\u2019ve already done, let your pride rise to the surface. And if someone doesn\u2019t like it, you don\u2019t need that person in your life.<\/p>\n

Love yourself enough to know that you deserve to feel pride and that you are more important than the person who is jealous or judging you unfairly. Let the Law of Attraction bring you more to feel proud of!<\/p>\n

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE<\/strong><\/a>.
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