{"id":4723,"date":"2013-08-27T12:01:55","date_gmt":"2013-08-27T16:01:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=4723"},"modified":"2013-08-29T21:38:02","modified_gmt":"2013-08-30T01:38:02","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-justification","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2013\/08\/law-of-attraction-in-action-justification.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: Justification"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"LOAlogoBLOG\"<\/a>This is post 249 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong><\/a> to see how.<\/p>\n

Sometimes when I\u2019m working with a client and I point out something in their words or actions that\u2019s counter-productive for the Law of Attraction to help them get what they want, they begin to justify why they do it.<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cYes, I\u2019m speaking negatively about my boss who I want a raise from but he hasn\u2019t been nice to me and deserves it. He makes me so angry\u201d Meanwhile, the person has an angry tone when speaking about the boss, which creates a negative vibration.<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cI can\u2019t afford to go to college so why bother applying?\u201d Taking action to get what you want helps you attract it. If you have strong determination, the Law of Attraction can return a way to do it.<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u201cI want lose weight and have tried many diets and exercised but nothing has worked so why make the effort to eat healthy and go to the gym?\u201d When you eat healthy and go to the gym you tell the Universe that you want to get into shape. When you give up because you didn\u2019t get results yet, you sentence yourself to not losing or to gaining weight.<\/p>\n

YOU may not see a way to get what you want or you might need patience to wait for the right time to manifest but it can happen if you do what’s necessary. Generating negative emotions won’t help.<\/p>\n

There is NO justification for doing things that send a negative vibe for the Law of Attraction to pick up on, unless you don\u2019t really want to get what you say you want. If you hear yourself justifying behavior or a lack of action that could be telling the Universe that you\u2019re not serious about what you say you want, decide how badly you actually want it. If the answer is a lot, then stop justifying and take action. Justifying keeps you from receiving. Positive words and actions manifest more.<\/p>\n

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE<\/strong><\/a>.
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