{"id":4031,"date":"2013-02-26T12:01:34","date_gmt":"2013-02-26T17:01:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=4031"},"modified":"2013-01-30T16:56:00","modified_gmt":"2013-01-30T21:56:00","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-what-other-people-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2013\/02\/law-of-attraction-in-action-what-other-people-do.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: What Other People Do"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>This is post 225 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong><\/a> to see how.<\/p>\n

People can be annoying or even do some nasty things to you. Sometimes they don\u2019t realize that they\u2019re making you feel bad; sometimes they do. But letting what other people do to affect you negatively creates a vibration that attracts things you won\u2019t want. I know how it feels when someone makes you mad. You can stew and let anger ripple into your mood. Even when it\u2019s over, that anger can linger, which keeps what made you angry on your mind. And if it\u2019s on your mind, the Law of Attraction picks up that negativity.<\/p>\n

Or, you may see someone doing something that you think is wrong or that you\u2019d do differently and keep it on your mind. Have you said, \u201cIf that was me I\u2019d\u2026\u201d about a person\u2019s actions? Maybe the person didn\u2019t reciprocate a favor or do as much as you would in a situation. DoorMats are especially good at that. When you\u2019re meticulous about pleasing others, most people won\u2019t do things as \u201cwell\u201d as you would or offer the same level of support. While it doesn\u2019t make them wrong or bad, viewing their actions with judgment based on how you do things stirs up negative emotions in you. That counters manifesting positive stuff.<\/p>\n

Thinking about what other people do that you don\u2019t like or that you disagree with sends your vibration for manifesting in the wrong direction. All judgment is negative in the eyes of the Law of Attraction, which doesn\u2019t judge or determine how you mean your thoughts. So the things you judge or get angry with can come back to you in ways you won\u2019t like. It can create a negative viscous cycle if you continue to think about what other people do.<\/p>\n

The solution is to stop judging other people. That in itself will come back to you! If something angers you, address it and let it go instead of sharing it with everyone in your path. If someone does something you\u2019d do differently, accept their right to have their own ways. What matters most is how you feel. When you feel great, you\u2019re in a much better place to attract your desires. When you focus on what others do, you give them power over your mood and what the Law of Attraction thinks you want.<\/p>\n

The more you can accept other people, the easier it is to accept yourself. Learn to let things roll off your back instead of grabbing onto reasons to complain. It makes life much happier and the Law of Attraction will work for you in much more positive ways when you do.<\/p>\n

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE<\/strong><\/a>.
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Join the Self-Love Movement\u2122<\/strong><\/a>! Take the 31 Days of Self-Love Commitment<\/strong><\/a> and get my book, How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> for free at http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a><\/strong>. Read my 2013 31 Days of Self-Love Posts HERE<\/strong><\/a>. Join the Self-Love Movement\u2122<\/strong><\/a>! on Facebook<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n

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