{"id":3992,"date":"2013-02-05T12:01:14","date_gmt":"2013-02-05T17:01:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=3992"},"modified":"2013-01-17T19:54:04","modified_gmt":"2013-01-18T00:54:04","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-neediness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2013\/02\/law-of-attraction-in-action-neediness.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: Neediness"},"content":{"rendered":"

This is post 222 in my s\"\"<\/a>eries on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong><\/a> to see how.
\nHow badly do you want things? You might think that if you want something VERY much that it will create a stronger vibration for manifesting. But, that can send a message of neediness for what you want, which translates into desperation to the Universe. The neediness can come across as negative, and create a negative vibe that the Law of Attraction responds to.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a BIG difference between creating excitement about getting what you desire and letting that desire consume you in a way that not getting it fast will make you unhappy. Picturing your goal becoming real with enthusiasm helps you get it, as long as you trust that it will come at the right time. If not having the need met quickly creates negative emotions, that\u2019s the vibe you put out. If you NEED that desire to come to pass so badly that you don\u2019t know what you\u2019ll do if it doesn\u2019t, you\u2019ll probably find out what will happen if it doesn\u2019t.\u00a0 The Law of Attraction will bring you more neediness.<\/p>\n

For example, if you believe that you need a romantic partner, that need can be so intense that you base your happiness on it. If you don\u2019t find a romantic partner in the time frame you desire, you might get depressed, sad, and desperate for someone. That attracts more depressed feelings, sadness, and desperation instead of the person you want. Neediness indicates not having faith that you\u2019ll get what you want when the time is right. And chances are, you\u2019ll continue to be alone, or get involved with people who aren\u2019t good for you, because your neediness will attract more neediness for the right person instead of meeting that person.<\/p>\n

If you want something to the point of your life will be miserable without it, you\u2019re desperate. And desperate always creates a negative vibration for the Law of Attraction to work with. As you learn to love yourself more and find ways to make yourself happy, your needs will become healthier. As your faith strengthens, so will your patience to wait for want you want with anticipation instead of neediness. Then you\u2019ll manifest more of what you want.<\/p>\n

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE<\/strong><\/a>.
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