{"id":3711,"date":"2012-12-13T12:01:44","date_gmt":"2012-12-13T17:01:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=3711"},"modified":"2012-12-04T13:03:35","modified_gmt":"2012-12-04T18:03:35","slug":"the-only-thing-that-matters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2012\/12\/the-only-thing-that-matters.html","title":{"rendered":"The Only Thing That Matters"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>I\u2019m thrilled to have Neale Donald Walsch<\/strong><\/a>, the author of 27 books on practical spirituality, as my guest today. Years ago, when I was still developing a relationship with God and building my spiritual core, someone gave me his Conversations with God<\/em> series, which have sold millions of copies worldwide. I read his wisdom a few pages at a time, as I absorbed the message. This was the God I wanted to believe in and love! Conversations with God put everything into perspective for me and helped me solidify my relationship with God and my beliefs.<\/p>\n

Walsch\u2019s books have been translated into 35 languages, and seven have made the New York Times bestseller list.\u00a0The author’s internet television program, Talk to Neale, allows his readers to interact with him regularly in person at www.CWG.tv . His newest book is The Only Thing That Matters<\/strong><\/a>. Here\u2019s an excerpt from this book:<\/p>\n

The Only Thing That Matters <\/strong>
\nBy <\/strong>Neale Donald Walsch<\/strong><\/a>
\nreprinted with permission<\/em><\/p>\n

Life loves you. It may not seem that way to you right now, and you may guffaw when you hear this, but Life loves you and is supporting you, and that is why you are receiving a Special Invitation from Life on this day. You may actually be able to feel this invitation\u2014much as you sometimes sense in the sleepy hours of the morning that it\u2019s time to wake up. Have you ever had that feeling? Nothing in particular is happening. There\u2019s no alarm going off. No one has come into the room to stir you. There\u2019s just an inner knowing: It\u2019s time to wake up.<\/p>\n

You may be feeling these days a muted excitement stirring within, generating a restless readiness to respond to a gentle but persistent inner voice that keeps whispering . . .It doesn\u2019t have to be this way.<\/p>\n

That inner voice is correct. Your life does not have to be a series of worrisome and challenging crises involving finances or relationships or health or family\u2014or all of the above. Or, for that matter, on some days nothing in particular . . . just a nagging sense of out-of-orderness. Neither does the world at large have to be a container of constant calamity engulfing its governance and politics, its commerce and economics, its environment and ecology, its cultures and religions.<\/p>\n

Listen to that voice . . It doesn\u2019t have to be this way. That is not wishful thinking. That is your Awareness speaking.<\/p>\n

What is occurring in your life right now is that your Awareness is growing\u2014and now you are hearing its voice. In strictest terms a \u201cgrowth\u201d in your Awareness is not possible. Your Awareness is what it is; it does not \u201cgrow\u201d larger and larger. That\u2019s because your Awareness rests within your Soul, and your Soul does not get bigger, or in some way \u201cmore,\u201d than it always was and is now. It is your Mind that expands. For easy understanding, it could be said that Awareness rests in the Soul and Attention resides in the Mind.<\/p>\n

So to put what is occurring in your life another way, you are now paying greater Attention to your Awareness. It\u2019s one thing to be \u201caware,\u201d but it is another thing altogether to pay attention to what your Soul is aware of (instead of ignoring it, which most people do most of the time). This mixture of the two is what might be called Consciousness. When your Mind pays attention to your Soul, and your Mind and Soul thus carry the same data, hold the same idea, and possess the same perspective, you might be said to be fully conscious.<\/p>\n

So, in real terms, it is your Consciousness that is expanding as the Awareness of your Soul comes to the Attention of your Mind. Now here\u2019s where the danger of misinterpretation exists: Your increased Consciousness brings along with it an increased sensitivity to every aspect of life. This has no doubt resulted in an expansion of the effect that all of Life has on you\u2014and this could feel as if everything\u2019s in your way, standing between you and peace, because the same kinds of life experiences that you encountered with little difficulty just a short while ago now feel like they\u2019re going to put you on \u201coverload.\u201d<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably been wondering what\u2019s going on, and why you don\u2019t seem to be \u201chandling things\u201d as easily anymore. Well, it\u2019s all very simple: You\u2019re not becoming less able, you\u2019re becoming more capable than ever. But you\u2019re growing into that as Life calls upon you to pay more attention to more things in more ways more of the time. Add to this the fact that there is more data in toto of which you can become aware (the world\u2019s new technologies have placed more information at the fingertips of a 15-year-old today than that to which the President of the United States had access a few years ago)\u2014and you can see the challenge.<\/p>\n

And it hasn\u2019t stopped there. More things seem to be falling apart all at once all over the place than ever before\u2014from financial systems to political systems to social systems, and even weather systems. So here you are, in the middle of The Perfect Storm: a confluence of expanding energies, enlarging noticements, and rapidly multiplying negative events that are producing some very interesting times. To say the least . . .some\u2026Very\u2026.Interesting\u2026.Times. Yet it is as spiritual teacher Mary O\u2019Malley wonderfully and succinctly puts it: \u201cWhat\u2019s in the way is the way.\u201d<\/p>\n

The reason that life\u2019s events seem to many people to be in the way is that many people have no idea where they\u2019re going. They do not know that on the path they were intended to take, there are no obstacles. The obstacles that people are encountering have not been plunked down suddenly and ruthlessly by Life, right in the middle of the path they\u2019re traveling. Rather, the path they\u2019re traveling is the one with obstacles already on it. Why? Why would people be traveling the road with all the detours, all the pitfalls and potholes and stumbling blocks, and finally, all the dead ends?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because they\u2019ve been given poor directions, or a very badly drawn map. The way people have been told they\u2019re supposed to go is not the way they came here to go. And that is why 98% of the world\u2019s people are spending 98% of their time on things that just don\u2019t matter. When you turn that around, you\u2019ll turn your life around.
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\nCheck out The Only Thing That Matters<\/strong><\/a>. Neale’s books are life-changing!
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Join the Self-Love Movement\u2122<\/strong><\/a>! Take the 31 Days of Self-Love Commitment<\/strong><\/a> and get my book, How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> for free at http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a><\/strong>. Read my 31 Days of Self-Love Posts HERE<\/a><\/strong><\/strong>.
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