{"id":3263,"date":"2012-06-19T12:01:39","date_gmt":"2012-06-19T16:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=3263"},"modified":"2012-06-13T12:41:50","modified_gmt":"2012-06-13T16:41:50","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-your-response-to-situations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2012\/06\/law-of-attraction-in-action-your-response-to-situations.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: Your Response to Situations"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/files\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1629\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/91\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG-231x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"231\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>This is post 192 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Law of Attraction in Action Serie<\/strong><\/a>s to see how.<\/p>\n<p>In order to get the Law of Attraction to help you manifest your response to situations is key, especially if you\u2019re experiencing negative results for something you\u2019re trying to achieve. Our normal tendency is to have a negative response\u2014anger, disappointment, frustration, or a desire to give up and quit. That message comes back to you in ways that prevents you from getting what you want. Other responses, even when we\u2019re on our way to manifest, is apathy, a lack of excitement, etc., which also can put the brakes on manifesting.<\/p>\n<p>When your response is positive no matter what happens, you keep the manifesting channels open.<\/p>\n<p>I like to say, \u201cI don\u2019t care how things look. I intend for it to go well.\u201d You can also say in negative situations, \u201cThis is going wrong right now but, I know it will all work out right.\u201d Getting yourself upset counters manifesting. Complaining to everyone gives what you don\u2019t want traction and the energy behind it brings more negatives.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to stay positive when negatives are in your face, but when you do, you can turn it around quickly. And if the news is good, celebrate it. Let it put your mood into a very good one. Try to get into the habit of thinking before you go to your automatic, typical response. You\u2019ll have a lot more positives in your life if you do.<\/p>\n<p>Below is a video with <a href=\"http:\/\/lawofattractionbook.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Michael Lozier,<\/strong><\/a> author of many books including The Law of Attraction. He explains about how your response affects the outcome.<br \/>\n<iframe title=\"Law of Attraction - Responsibility with Michael Losier\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/wTHTxLP6P3c?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\nSee all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>.<br \/>\n***************<\/p>\n<p>Take the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>31 Days of Self-Love Challenge<\/strong><\/a>&#8211;a pledge to do something loving for yourself for the next 31 days&#8211;and get my book, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\" target=\"_blank\">How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> for free at <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/\">http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a><\/strong>. Read my 31 Days of Self-Love Posts from 2012 <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2012\/02\/31-days-of-self-love-2012.html\" target=\"_blank\">HERE<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Please leave comments under my posts so we can stay connected.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is post 192 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how. 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