{"id":301,"date":"2007-11-22T11:24:00","date_gmt":"2007-11-22T11:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2007\/11\/happy-turkey-day.html"},"modified":"2007-11-22T11:24:00","modified_gmt":"2007-11-22T11:24:00","slug":"happy-turkey-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2007\/11\/happy-turkey-day.html","title":{"rendered":"Happy Turkey Day!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_W3h59OgJIAA\/R0WuIIx5N7I\/AAAAAAAAAGs\/vAwAlDLxW3I\/s1600-h\/Tom2.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left;margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_W3h59OgJIAA\/R0WuIIx5N7I\/AAAAAAAAAGs\/vAwAlDLxW3I\/s200\/Tom2.JPG\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be away for the long weekend and won\u2019t be posting again till next week. I wanted to wish everyone a wonderful Thanksgiving, and the hope that you\u2019ll find LOTS of things to be thankful for!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">Why I\u2019m Grateful<\/span> (just a few of the gassillion things I could list if I had more more time)<br \/>My health is terrific!<br \/>I earn a living doing what I love.<br \/>I have a fabulous sunny, spacious, quiet, rent stabilized apartment in midtown Manhattan.<br \/>I still feel 21.<br \/>I\u2019m happy with who I am and how I look.<br \/>My self-confidence is soaring.<br \/>I get up every day smiling. <br \/>I have wonderful friends and family.<br \/>I\u2019m getting into better shape as I get older.<br \/>I\u2019m writing this looking out at beautiful forest and mountains in the Berkshires.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">I\u2019m not a DoorMat anymore!!!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Enjoy your holiday dinner and <span style=\"font-weight:bold\">don\u2019t get guilty if you indulge<\/span>. It takes the pleasure out of an occasional splurge. I\u2019m delighted to share a yummy meal with my family and will enjoy it all guilt free. We have almost as many pies as people! But, I know better than to take too many rich leftovers home with me. Am about to go out for a power walk and some running in the hills surrounding me before I sit down to feast.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">I wish you all a blessed Thanksgiving that lasts through to next years holiday!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>If you enjoyed my post, please leave a comment and\/or click on the bookmark and write a short review at some of the sites, especially Stumbleupon. 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