{"id":277,"date":"2008-01-02T12:22:00","date_gmt":"2008-01-02T12:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2008\/01\/one-mans-miracle.html"},"modified":"2008-01-02T12:22:00","modified_gmt":"2008-01-02T12:22:00","slug":"one-mans-miracle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2008\/01\/one-mans-miracle.html","title":{"rendered":"One Man\u2019s Miracle"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_W3h59OgJIAA\/R3vhLF0xekI\/AAAAAAAAAJk\/lvPRdOsrGa8\/s1600-h\/PEACE.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin:0px auto 10px;text-align:center;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_W3h59OgJIAA\/R3vhLF0xekI\/AAAAAAAAAJk\/lvPRdOsrGa8\/s200\/PEACE.JPG\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_W3h59OgJIAA\/R3vIjV0xejI\/AAAAAAAAAJc\/pKSbOAdY5xE\/s1600-h\/dvd+cover.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left;margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_W3h59OgJIAA\/R3vIjV0xejI\/AAAAAAAAAJc\/pKSbOAdY5xE\/s200\/dvd+cover.JPG\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">Happy New Year to you all!<\/span> <\/p>\n<p>I entered 2008 feeling positive and expecting GREAT things that I KNOW I will get! For my first post of 2008, I have a guest. <span style=\"font-weight:bold\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.davidmbailey.com\">David M. Bailey<\/a><\/span> is no ordinary one. I got to know David when I interviewed him for a book in 2002. His story inspired me. While I interviewed him as a musician, he is so much more\u2014a troubadour who travels the country spreading hope and faith. You see, David was given no more than 6 months to live when he was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor.<\/p>\n<p>That was in 1996! Every July I\u2019m delighted to get his email celebrating another year of proving the docs wrong!<\/p>\n<p>David pursued his music passion in college, playing extensively in an original acoustic duo, but after graduation, traded his guitar for corporate America. After being told he was going to die, David left his corporate job and returned to his first love\u2014songwriting and performing. Since then, he has cranked out one CD after another, sharing his hope and music with many thousands of fans. All of his CDs reflect his positive attitude about hope and living life. They are wonderful to listen to and make thoughtful gifts for people who might have a personal struggle (and who doesn\u2019t!). <\/p>\n<p>I sent David\u2019s \u201cFaith\u201d CD to a woman I correspond with in Tehran, Iran. She translated one of my books 5 years ago and we\u2019ve had an email friendship ever since. Nasrin loved the CD! She\u2019s been struggling with some issues with her life in Iran and found a lot of hope in David\u2019s words and music. You can hear hear David\u2019s music on <span style=\"font-weight:bold\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.davidmbailey.com\/mp3.cfm\">his website<\/a><\/span>. <\/p>\n<p>Eleven years, 16 albums, &amp; 44 states later, David continues speaking to audiences with his music and inspirational talks that challenge us all to live passionately and treasure the beauty of each new day!<\/p>\n<p>This morning I got this <span style=\"font-weight:bold\">poem from David<\/span> and asked if I could share it on my blog. He sends beautiful messages to those of us on his mailing list. It inspired me so I hope it gives you a warm and fuzzy feeling too! <\/p>\n<p>Another year has passed us by<br \/>we breathe, we laugh we learn we cry<br \/>we wrestle with the great unknown <br \/>and struggle not to feel alone<br \/>we look around to find the love<br \/>and pray for blessings from above<br \/>we toss our coins in the fountain of hope<br \/>and make our wish that we can cope <br \/>with all that waits around the bend <br \/>its so hard to comprehend<br \/>yet as I try to look ahead <br \/>my eyes are turned behind instead <br \/>One year ago this very day<br \/>I recall the words i tried to say<br \/>I am not sure exactly how<br \/>But i looked ahead to well, right now. <br \/>I wondered if I&#8217;d still be here<br \/>Alot can happen in a year<br \/>And alot did.  that&#8217;s for sure <br \/>Did I mention that I went on tour? <br \/>Felt like i went everywhere<br \/>But it&#8217;s a mighty big world that waits out there. <br \/>Bla blah blah  that news is old<br \/>those episodes have all been told <br \/>For all we did there&#8217;s more to do<br \/>You already know that&#8217;s true<br \/>that&#8217;s not the point i&#8217;m trying to make <br \/>Here&#8217;s the point for goodness&#8217; sake<br \/>a year ago i could not have said<br \/>what would happen in the year ahead<br \/>that year ahead is now behind<br \/>A couple things come to mind<br \/>It doesn&#8217;t matter where you went<br \/>What matters is how the time was spent<br \/>It doesn&#8217;t matter who you met<br \/>what matters is who you don&#8217;t forget<br \/>It doesn&#8217;t matter the battles you lost<br \/>It matters if you learned the cost<br \/>It doesn&#8217;t matter the games you played <br \/>What matters is the friends you made <br \/>It doesn&#8217;t matter who you know <br \/>What matters is the care you show <br \/>It doesn&#8217;t matter if you learned to grieve<br \/>What matters that you still believe <br \/>Believe in faith,  hope and love <br \/>That&#8217;s what this life is all made of <br \/>3 simple words are still the reason <br \/>we pull ourselves through each new season<br \/> So yes, we made it you and I <br \/>One more year to dream and try <br \/>One more day &#8211;  365<br \/>It&#8217;s beautiful to be alive <br \/>these words were quick just  off the cuff<br \/>And I&#8217;ve already said enough<br \/>I fear if I take any more time<br \/>I&#8217;ll just sound like a nursery rhyme <br \/>I probably already do <br \/>Which should be my final clue<br \/>To end this quickly-  end it now!<br \/>I&#8217;m just not sure that I know how <br \/>To end it well.  oh what the <br \/>Hello everybody and happy new year! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>You can find more about David at <span style=\"font-weight:bold\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.davidmbailey.com\">www.davidmbailey.com<\/a><\/span>. If you or someone you know could use some hope, faith, or just some great music, you can order his CDs at <span style=\"font-weight:bold\"><a href=\"http:\/\/cdbaby.com\/group\/dbailey\">CDBaby.com<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>If you enjoyed my post, please leave a comment and\/or click on the bookmark and write a short review at some of the sites, especially Stumbleupon. Thanks!<br \/><!-- AddThis Bookmark Button BEGIN --><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.addthis.com\/bookmark.php\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/s9.addthis.com\/button1-bm.gif\" width=\"125\" height=\"16\" border=\"0\" alt=\"AddThis Social Bookmark Button\" \/><\/a> var addthis_pub = &#8216;wryter&#8217;;  <br \/><!-- AddThis Bookmark Button END --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy New Year to you all! I entered 2008 feeling positive and expecting GREAT things that I KNOW I will get! For my first post of 2008, I have a guest. David M. Bailey is no ordinary one. 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