{"id":2301,"date":"2011-12-13T12:01:40","date_gmt":"2011-12-13T17:01:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=2301"},"modified":"2011-12-04T21:27:37","modified_gmt":"2011-12-05T02:27:37","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-resistant-beliefs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/12\/law-of-attraction-in-action-resistant-beliefs.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: Resistant Beliefs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/files\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1629\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/91\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG-231x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"231\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>This is post 166 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to attract all that you need. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Law of Attraction in Action Serie<\/strong>s<\/a> to see how.<\/p>\n<p>You know what you want and focus your thoughts on getting it. You try to do everything you\u2019ve learned about using the Law of Attraction to manifest but you still don\u2019t have what you want. How can this be? You\u2019ve worked hard to get a good vibration about it going and thinking positive thoughts. What are you missing?<\/p>\n<p>Chances are, you have resistant beliefs that block you from getting what you want. They\u2019re often subconscious but remain in your memory, blocking your desires.<\/p>\n<p>You may want the opportunity to start your own business but subconsciously remember being told you weren\u2019t smart enough to do anything good. Even if you\u2019re confident in yourself now, the old messages can sabotage what you\u2019re going after. If you were told you weren\u2019t pretty enough to attract a handsome guy, even if you like how you look now, your subconscious can be playing the old tape about men not finding you attractive, and it comes true.<\/p>\n<p>One of the hardest things about making the Law of Attraction work for you is getting rid of the resistance to manifesting. One way I\u2019ve found effective is using EFT, also called Tapping, to release it from you. I shared one of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bradyates.net\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Brad Yates<\/strong><\/a>\u2019 videos about using <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/10\/\u201ci-love-me\u201d-tip-tap-into-vibrant-health-with-brad-yates.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Tapping for Vibrant Health<\/strong><\/a>. Now I want to share his video on Clearing Resistance. When you tap on the things keeping you from getting the results you want, you release what\u2019s causing resistance to getting it.<\/p>\n<p><iframe title=\"Clearing Resistance - Tapping with Brad Yates\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/YJvhIn8PirM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\nSee all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html\" target=\"_blank\">HERE<\/a>.<br \/>\n*********************<\/p>\n<p>Take the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>31 Days of Self-Love Challenge<\/strong><\/a> &#8211;a pledge to start your year by doing something kind for yourself for the first 31 days of January&#8211;and get my book, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\" target=\"_blank\">How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> for free at <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/\">http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a><\/strong>. And you can post your loving acts <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/post-self-love-actions\" target=\"_blank\">HERE<\/a><\/strong> to reinforce your intention to love yourself. Read my 31 Days of Self-Love Posts <strong><a href=\"..\/2011\/02\/31-days-of-self-love-posts.html\" target=\"_blank\">HERE<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Please leave comments under my posts so we can stay connected.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is post 166 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to attract all that you need. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how. 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