{"id":1932,"date":"2011-09-13T12:01:21","date_gmt":"2011-09-13T16:01:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/?p=1932"},"modified":"2011-07-23T23:18:45","modified_gmt":"2011-07-24T03:18:45","slug":"law-of-attraction-in-action-%e2%80%9ceverything-will-work-out-okay-%e2%80%9d","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2011\/09\/law-of-attraction-in-action-%e2%80%9ceverything-will-work-out-okay-%e2%80%9d.html","title":{"rendered":"Law of Attraction in Action: \u201cEverything Will Work Out Okay.\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/files\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1629\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/91\/2011\/05\/LOAlogoBLOG-231x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"231\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>This is post 153 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to attract all that you need. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my <a href=\"%20%E2%80%9CEverything%20Will%20Work%20Out%20Okay.%E2%80%9D\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Law of Attraction in Action Series<\/strong><\/a> to see how.<\/p>\n<p>I switched my Internet and phone service recently and was very nervous about it. I work at home and my landline is critical to my business. After getting tons of reassurance from several higher ups at the company, I took the plunge. My Internet connection was good the first day. I was away the second. The third day I tried to check my answering machine while I was out and my line was busy. Turns out my phone was dead\u2014on day 3 of service! And, my Internet connection, which was touted to be much faster than my old one, was so slow it took minutes for simple windows to open.<\/p>\n<p>As I dealt with it, I realized that I\u2019d been expecting trouble. My nervousness and need for reassurance said I expected problems, and I manifested them. Oh no I thought, I must change this! So in the height of my frantic calls to tech support, I took some deep breaths and affirmed, \u201cEverything will work out okay.\u201d After saying it a few times I felt calmer. I got someone quickly on my cell and she said to unplug the modem and then plug it in again. When I did it, my phone went on.<\/p>\n<p>Panicking tells the Universe you expect trouble. <strong>Affirming, \u201cEverything will work out okay\u201d sets the tone for everything to work out okay.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Saying it instantly changed the dynamics of my emotions, and it\u2019s your emotions that attract your outcomes. Feeling nervous, scared, worried, panicky, etc. are big negative emotions that pack a lot of fuel for attracting what you don\u2019t want. Saying a calming positive affirmation like \u201cEverything will work out okay\u201d can override those emotions if you say it like you mean it. I\u2019ve learned over time that it does work so when I think rationally in the midst of a barrage of negative emotions, and remind myself to affirm a positive, I do believe it.<\/p>\n<p>You may have to try it a few times to see the amazing power of words like \u201cEverything will work out okay\u201d and see that it does work out.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve used this type of affirmation to calm myself in many situations. For example, I recently went running in Central Park. I always try to hydrate well before leaving, especially when it\u2019s warm, which it was. Sometimes it\u2019s not enough. I found myself sweating more than usual and drank from my bottle of water. As I power walked home, I began to get funny stuff going on with my vision. I was almost 15 minutes form home if I power walked. It was a bit scary. And of course, when we get scared, other symptoms kick in from the stress.<\/p>\n<p>I remembered something similar happening years ago and drinking a lot of water made it go away for good. But I only had a little left. And the last time I was home. Here I was walking the streets of Manhattan with vision that felt like someone splashed water into my eyes. I\u2019d planned to stop at a store on the way home to buy something I really needed. It meant walking 7 extra blocks. Nerves convinced me to skip it. Then I caught myself and began repeating, \u201cI\u2019m okay. Everything will work out okay.\u201d I headed to the store, sipping the water I had left. Shortly after my eyes were fine and it didn\u2019t happen again.<\/p>\n<p>Our words have so much power when we want them to!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Even when circumstances are going against you, take some deep breaths and affirm, \u201cEverything will work out okay.\u201d<\/strong> You have the power to change how you feel about what\u2019s going on and that in turn attracts a positive resolution. Expect solutions to come! Then relax and show the Universe you do so the Law of Attraction can respond to that vibe.<\/p>\n<p>See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2009\/01\/Law-of-Attraction-in-Action-Series.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>.<br \/>\n*********************<\/p>\n<p>Take the <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-pledge\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>self-love challenge<\/strong><\/a> and get my book, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/the-book\" target=\"_blank\">How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/a><\/strong> for free at <a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/\">http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com<\/a>. And you can post your loving acts <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/howdoiloveme.com\/post-self-love-actions\" target=\"_blank\">HERE<\/a><\/strong> to reinforce your intention to love yourself. Read my 31 Days of Self-Love Posts <strong><a href=\"..\/2011\/02\/31-days-of-self-love-posts.html\" target=\"_blank\">HERE<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Please leave comments under my posts so we can stay connected.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is post 153 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to attract all that you need. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how. 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