{"id":785,"date":"2007-10-25T10:16:16","date_gmt":"2007-10-25T10:16:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jwalking\/2007\/10\/parental-guilt.html"},"modified":"2007-10-25T10:16:16","modified_gmt":"2007-10-25T10:16:16","slug":"parental-guilt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jwalking\/2007\/10\/parental-guilt.html","title":{"rendered":"Parental guilt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We are actively deceiving our two-year-old daughter and my guilt is getting the best of me. The area of deception centers around food &#8211; specifically on &#8220;ice cream.&#8221;<br \/>\nLast night I heard her saying &#8220;green ice cream, I want green ice cream for dinner.&#8221; Imagine my surprise when I heard her say, with glee, &#8220;green ice creeeeeeaaammmmm!!!&#8221; Livvy rarely, rarely gets ice cream. The closest thing she gets are homemade fruit pops. So I was wondering what was going on but was on deadline to finish a couple projects and couldn&#8217;t check out the situation for myself.<br \/>\nLater I learned what had happened.<br \/>\nWhen Livvy just began eating food, Kim pureed bunches of vegetables and fruits together. Some of it was pretty standard baby stuff &#8211; carrots and squash, peas and beans, etc. But some of it was a little more intense &#8211; spinach, kale, and brussels sprouts (together), for instance. She put the purees into ice cube trays to be thawed and heated for later consumption.<br \/>\nThe child ate them for a long time and though she has long since graduated to solid foods she still gets them mixed into her apple sauce. The poor child doesn&#8217;t actually know how good plain old apple sauce tastes.<br \/>\nLast night something clicked and she saw a tray of the stuff and decided that since they were cold and like ice they just might be&#8230; ice cream. And so my poor daughter now thinks those green cubes of spinach, kale, and brussels sprouts are ice cream.<br \/>\nI am paralyzed by guilt. I am sure this will come up in therapy years from now. What would Solomon say of such actions?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are actively deceiving our two-year-old daughter and my guilt is getting the best of me. 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