{"id":4048,"date":"2010-09-20T12:02:59","date_gmt":"2010-09-20T18:02:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jesusneedsnewpr.net\/?p=4048"},"modified":"2011-05-03T17:00:05","modified_gmt":"2011-05-03T17:00:05","slug":"a-blog-post-my-favorite-part-of-a-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesusneedsnewpr\/2010\/09\/a-blog-post-my-favorite-part-of-a-wedding.html","title":{"rendered":"A BLOG POST: My Favorite Part of a Wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"

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I just returned this morning from Milwaukee.<\/p>\n

Jessica<\/a>‘s sister, Melissa, was married this weekend. My sister-in-law’s wedding went beautifully.<\/p>\n

Elias ran down the aisle when he was supposed to…<\/p>\n

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Elias running in... <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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And then three minutes later, he ran right back up the aisle…<\/p>\n

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Elias running out... <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Melissa looked absolutely beautiful.<\/p>\n

Dan, Melissa’s husband, handled the day with humor and grace.<\/p>\n

And Jessica, the matron of honor, looked gorgeous.<\/p>\n

And me? Well, I sang, and for the most part, hit all of my notes. And at least twelve people asked me why I didn’t have a record deal… I even got an offer from one of Jessica’s relatives to start a band.<\/p>\n

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Daddy and Elias after braving the dance floor... <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Since getting married nearly six years ago, anytime I attend a wedding, I always end up thinking about Jessica and my wedding day. It was a perfect day. Jessica looked like she should have been on the cover of a wedding magazine. I was fat on Zoloft back then, but still, cleaned up nicely. Our wedding service was uniquely “us,” a sometimes sickening mixture of classic, popular, and sappy. But “us.”<\/p>\n

And then the reception… food, dancing, champagne, kind words, and of course, a table of scrapbooks detailing the history of Jessica and my relationship… and again, all of that was perfect and good and meant so much…<\/p>\n

Then, at some point during the reception, it hit me…. I remembered something that Jessica had said in the weeks leading up to that day. She and I had been arguing–not really arguing–discussing<\/em> the finances of our wedding.<\/p>\n

I said something like, “You don’t think it’s going to be pretentious, do you? I don’t want it to be pretentious.”<\/p>\n

And then she said, “No. Not at all. Because I don’t think our wedding day is about ‘us’ as much as it is a ‘celebration’ of all the people who make us ‘us’.”<\/p>\n

And THAT’S what our special day was for Jessica and me… a celebration of the most important people in our lives.<\/p>\n

As I took a moment to take in the scene of our reception, I looked around that room and realized that nearly every person that Jessica and I loved in that moment was in that room…<\/p>\n

The people–friends and family–we cared about.<\/p>\n

The people who had raised us.<\/p>\n

Shaped us.<\/p>\n

Moved us.<\/p>\n

Cried with us.<\/p>\n

Prayed for us.<\/p>\n

Taught us something true.<\/p>\n

The people we needed (and still need)…<\/p>\n

They were there. (Most of them anyway… )<\/p>\n

And THAT overwhelmed me. Because how often does that happen? A gathering of the most important people in one’s life? In one room. Happy. Smelling good. Dancing…<\/p>\n

That was a powerful moment for me. A moment that I consider and relive and value every time I go to a wedding.<\/p>\n

(And then there’s that first picture of Elias-above with Buzz Lightyear-that’s pretty darn amazing, too…)<\/p>\n

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Elias... partied out... <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

As odd as this might seem… weddings are good reminders for me… that it’s not all about ‘us.’<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I just returned this morning from Milwaukee. Jessica‘s sister, Melissa, was married this weekend. My sister-in-law’s wedding went beautifully. Elias ran down the aisle when he was supposed to… And then three minutes later, he ran right back up the aisle… Melissa looked absolutely beautiful. 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