{"id":5754,"date":"2010-03-11T06:03:31","date_gmt":"2010-03-11T06:03:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2010\/03\/family-first-rjs.html"},"modified":"2010-03-11T06:03:31","modified_gmt":"2010-03-11T06:03:31","slug":"family-first-rjs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesuscreed\/2010\/03\/family-first-rjs.html","title":{"rendered":"Family First? (RJS)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Thinker.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/120\/import\/imgs\/Thinker.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"float: right;margin: 0pt 0pt 20px 20px\" height=\"241\" width=\"161\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">A couple of times last week Scot <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2010\/03\/wheaton-conference-march-18-19.html\">advertised<br \/>\na conference<\/a> on <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2010\/03\/wheaton-conference-on-evangeli.html\">Evangelicals<br \/>\nand the Early Church<\/a> to be held next week at Wheaton College. I wish I could<br \/>\nattend, as it looks fascinating. But one of the things I noticed<br \/>\nimmediately when Scot posted the agenda was the ratio of male to female<br \/>\nspeakers and respondents (17 men, 1 woman). Now I don&#8217;t think that this rather lopsided agenda<br \/>\nis the result of discrimination on the part of Wheaton or the conference<br \/>\norganizers. In fact I&#8217;ve been told that more women were asked. Rather, I<br \/>\nexpect that it reflects, at least in part, a deeper problem &#8211; and the<br \/>\nsubject of this post.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Perhaps the title of this post should be &#8220;Family First!&#8221; but the<br \/>\nquestion I wish to address is not the importance of family or the<br \/>\ncommitment of parents to invest time and energy in <strike>raising<\/strike> rearing their children.&nbsp; Those are a given.<br \/>\nRather I would like to consider how this plays out in our world today,<br \/>\nespecially within evangelicalism. For those who would like to see a<br \/>\ndiversity of voices both male and female represented in evangelical<br \/>\nthought, making use of the gifts of all, it is a particularly<br \/>\nsignificant question. <\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Family commitments play a significant role in the decisions women make &#8211; and these decision influence the availability of women to contribute to the intellectual life of our church. Within evangelical circles there is a pressure, sometimes subtle, sometimes not so<br \/>\nsubtle, to focus inward on family commitments at the expense of outward commitments.<br \/>\nThis can take many forms &#8211; none of them wrong in and of themselves &#8211;<br \/>\nindividual families make decisions that are best for their situation. But there is an underlying implication that a woman has somehow failed by putting an outward focused goal over the milestones, small or large, of family life; not over family, but over some ideal of what family commitment should be.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">There is no one right answer or easy solution &#8211; but I would like to open this topic up for conversation. Perhaps the following questions will help guide the conversation:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><i><b>Is it important to have both male and female voices represented in evangelical thought? <\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><i><b>What does it mean to put family first? and What are the relative merits of an inward focus and an outward focus? <br \/><\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><i><b>Should a mother&#8217;s focus be first and foremost inward? A father&#8217;s? <br \/><\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><i><b>How does this play out in your life?<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">If you wish to contact me directly you may do so at rjs4mail[at]att.net<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A couple of times last week Scot advertised a conference on Evangelicals and the Early Church to be held next week at Wheaton College. I wish I could attend, as it looks fascinating. 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