{"id":5316,"date":"2010-01-20T05:38:06","date_gmt":"2010-01-20T05:38:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2010\/01\/when-do-you-leave-a-church.html"},"modified":"2010-01-20T05:38:06","modified_gmt":"2010-01-20T05:38:06","slug":"when-do-you-leave-a-church","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesuscreed\/2010\/01\/when-do-you-leave-a-church.html","title":{"rendered":"When do you leave a church?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/assets_c\/2009\/02\/Thinker-3501.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/120\/import\/assets_c\/2009\/02\/Thinker-thumb-333x498-3501.jpg\" alt=\"Thinker.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"margin: 0pt 0pt 20px 20px;float: right\" height=\"498\" width=\"333\" \/><\/a><\/span>We occasionally post letters from readers and friends, and the letter below comes from a reader. The letter expresses a really good question and it also gets to the heart of the pain of many folks. So, how would you respond to the questions?<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<blockquote class=\"webkit-indent-blockquote\"><p><font color=\"#000000\" face=\"'Times New Roman', helvetica, hirakakupro-w3, osaka, 'ms pgothic', sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: medium\"><i>Dear Scot,<\/i><\/span><\/font><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"webkit-indent-blockquote\"><p><font color=\"#000000\" face=\"'Times New Roman', helvetica, hirakakupro-w3, osaka, 'ms pgothic', sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: medium\"><i><br \/><\/i><\/span><\/font><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"webkit-indent-blockquote\"><p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"><i>When is appropriate to leave a church?<\/p>\n<p>I have always thought that membership in a local congregation of a&nbsp; church is an important part of christian life. This relationship is a &nbsp;<br \/>commitment to a group of people and to the mission of God. Now in our &nbsp;<br \/>mobile society this relationship is often changed by change in &nbsp;<br \/>location. Clearly this requires leaving one congregation and joining &nbsp;<br \/>another. &nbsp;But assuming no change in location when is it appropriate to &nbsp;<br \/>leave, or to divorce, a church?<\/p>\n<p>Clearly it is, or may be, appropriate to leave if the leadership of a church is &nbsp;<br \/>leading the church away from the gospel.<\/p>\n<p>It may be appropriate if the leadership is abusive in some fashion.<\/p>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t my question though &#8211; rather I&#8217;d put it like this&#8230; When is &nbsp;<br \/>it best to &#8220;divorce&#8221; for irreconcilable differences? When is it not &nbsp;<br \/>self-centeredness or &#8220;consumerism&#8221; to simply walk away?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We occasionally post letters from readers and friends, and the letter below comes from a reader. The letter expresses a really good question and it also gets to the heart of the pain of many folks. So, how would you respond to the questions? Dear Scot, When is appropriate to leave a church? 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