{"id":5019,"date":"2009-06-12T06:14:11","date_gmt":"2009-06-12T06:14:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2009\/06\/friday-is-for-friends-rachel-e.html"},"modified":"2009-06-12T06:14:11","modified_gmt":"2009-06-12T06:14:11","slug":"friday-is-for-friends-rachel-e","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesuscreed\/2009\/06\/friday-is-for-friends-rachel-e.html","title":{"rendered":"Friday is for Friends: Rachel Evans"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\"><i>The following post is one of our &#8220;Friday is for Friends&#8221; posts written by friends of the Jesus Creed blog. Today&#8217;s post is by Rachel Held Evans, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rachelheldevans.com\/\">you can read more about her at her blog<\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"RachelEvans.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/120\/import\/imgs\/RachelEvans.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;float: left\" height=\"240\" width=\"233\" \/><\/span>Growing up in the conservative evangelical<br \/>\nsubculture, I spent a lot of years trying desperately to achieve what<br \/>\nis commonly referred to as &#8220;biblical womanhood&#8221;&#8211;an elusive spiritual<br \/>\nstandard hailed by my pastors and professors as the best way to please<br \/>\nGod and honor my husband. The Bible contained everything I needed to<br \/>\nknow about my role as a woman, I was told. It provided the final word<br \/>\non how I was to behave in the home, in church, and in society,<br \/>\nregardless of what voices from the prevailing culture might say.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>&#8220;Biblical<br \/>\nwomanhood&#8221; gave me and my friends an ideal for which to strive, a<br \/>\ncalling to which to respond, and a label by which to praise or<br \/>\ncriticize.<br \/>\n<span>&nbsp;<\/span>There was just one problem: None of us agreed on exactly what &#8220;biblical womanhood&#8221; was.<br \/>&nbsp;<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">Some used Proverbs 31 as their standard. Others<br \/>\nused the letters of Paul. Among those who used the letters of Paul,<br \/>\nsome tried to apply all of his admonitions (by remaining silent in<br \/>\nchurch and avoiding all leadership positions), but most only applied<br \/>\nsome (by participating in church leadership, but not as pastors or<br \/>\npreachers).\n<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n<!-- Begin TwitThis (http:\/\/twitthis.com\/) --><\/p>\n<p>&lt;!&#8211;<br \/>\ndocument.write(&#039;<a href=\";\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/s3.chuug.com\/chuug.twitthis.resources\/twitthis_grey_72x22.gif\" alt=\"TwitThis\" style=\"border:none\" \/><\/a>&#8216;);<br \/>\n\/\/&#8211;&gt;<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/End --><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span>As I began to think more<br \/>\ncritically about the Bible and the culture in which it was written, I<br \/>\nrealized that the concept of &#8220;biblical womanhood&#8221; posed some serious<br \/>\nproblems. Technically speaking, it was &#8220;biblical&#8221; for women to be<br \/>\nconsidered property (Exodus 20:17), to cover their heads (1 Corinthians<br \/>\n11:5), to marry their rapists (Deuteronomy 22:28), and to stand by as<br \/>\ntheir husbands took more wives.<span>&nbsp;<br \/>\n<\/span>Yet no one in my circle suggested that these biblical realities<br \/>\nconstituted &#8220;biblical womanhood.&#8221; To imply that there was a single<br \/>\n&#8220;biblical&#8221; approach to womanhood (or marriage or family) required some<br \/>\nserious picking and choosing. Using the Bible as an adjective, it<br \/>\nseemed, was misleading. <\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">I suppose that&#8217;s why, these days, I tend to<br \/>\nbristle whenever I attend a conference in which lectures are entitled<br \/>\n&#8220;The Biblical View of Courtship&#8221; or &#8220;A Biblical Approach to the<br \/>\nEnvironment.&#8221; Sticking the word &#8220;biblical&#8221; in front of a noun like<br \/>\n&#8220;manhood&#8221; or &#8220;womanhood&#8221; or &#8220;economics&#8221; or &#8220;stewardship&#8221; or &#8220;politics&#8221;<br \/>\nadds an element of gravitas to one&#8217;s argument, but it diminishes the<br \/>\nvariety and complexity of the very words of Scripture one seeks to<br \/>\nelevate.<span>&nbsp;<br \/>\n<\/span>It implies that the Bible&#8217;s cacophony of voices can be reduced<br \/>\nto single tone, its rich stories and characters summarized in a single<br \/>\nline, its paradox and contradiction ignored or brushed aside.<br \/>\n<span>&nbsp;<\/span>It suggests that just one interpretation exists&#8230;or that the speaker&#8217;s interpretation is the only one that counts.\n<\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">We often use the Bible as an adjective without<br \/>\neven thinking about it. For years, I bragged about having a &#8220;biblical<br \/>\nworldview,&#8221; without regard to the massive assumptions such a statement<br \/>\nmakes about the Bible&#8217;s cultural context as well as my own. I&#8217;ve<br \/>\nnoticed that my Episcopal friends get a little uncomfortable whenever<br \/>\nsomeone refers to evangelicalism as &#8220;biblical Christianity,&#8221; implying<br \/>\nthat other traditions do not take Scripture seriously. In debates<br \/>\nbetween young earth creationists and theistic evolutionists, I&#8217;ve heard<br \/>\npeople from both sides claim a &#8220;biblical view of creation.&#8221; And in a<br \/>\nheated discussion about state-sponsored welfare the other day, I found<br \/>\nmyself blurting out, &#8220;Well, I prefer to take the biblical approach to<br \/>\npoverty, the one in which we always care for our poor.&#8221; Oops.<\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">Now, I&#8217;m not advocating a complete retirement of<br \/>\nthe word &#8220;biblical.&#8221; (It&#8217;s obviously a useful term for describing<br \/>\ncertain courses of study.) I&#8217;m just suggesting we apply more caution in<br \/>\nhow we use it. I find it helps to ask myself, &#8220;Am I using the Bible to<br \/>\nend a conversation or to begin one?&#8221; or better yet, &#8220;Am I really trying<br \/>\nto align myself with the Bible or am I trying to align the Bible with<br \/>\nme?&#8221;<br \/>\n<span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">I&#8217;ve found that such an approach makes talking about womanhood a bit more challenging, but infinitely more enjoyable.\n<\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">In what ways do you see the word &#8220;biblical&#8221;<br \/>\nmisused? When do you think it is appropriate, and when do you think it<br \/>\nis inappropriate?<br \/>\n<span>&nbsp;<\/span>Let me know what you think, Jesus Creeders! <\/p>\n<p>[Rachel Held Evans is a writer from Dayton,<br \/>\nTennessee, home of the Scopes Monkey Trial of 1925. Her book, a<br \/>\nspiritual memoir, is tentatively titled &#8220;Evolving in Monkey Town&#8221; and<br \/>\nwill be published by Zondervan. She blogs at<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/mail.northpark.edu\/owa\/redir.aspx?C=8017e2f6036443aabcf59f2a2611e2a5&amp;URL=http%3a%2f%2fwww.rachelheldevans.com%2f\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\nhttp:\/\/www.rachelheldevans.com<\/a>.]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The following post is one of our &#8220;Friday is for Friends&#8221; posts written by friends of the Jesus Creed blog. Today&#8217;s post is by Rachel Held Evans, and you can read more about her at her blog. 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