{"id":4966,"date":"2009-05-22T06:04:45","date_gmt":"2009-05-22T06:04:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2009\/05\/youth-ministry-family-based-by.html"},"modified":"2009-05-22T06:04:45","modified_gmt":"2009-05-22T06:04:45","slug":"youth-ministry-family-based-by","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesuscreed\/2009\/05\/youth-ministry-family-based-by.html","title":{"rendered":"Youth Ministry: Family Based? (by Chris Folmsbee)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Here is a recognized youth ministry leader who is asking us for some help. Let&#8217;s pool our ideas and see what we can say&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><\/i>Since I began posting here several months ago I have received a dozen<br \/>\nor so requests for me to post on &#8220;family-based youth ministry.&#8221;&nbsp;&nbsp; For<br \/>\nthose of you who have been requesting this, I think you might be<br \/>\ndisappointed with this post.&nbsp; Honestly, I have no idea what to say<br \/>\nabout family based youth ministry.&nbsp; I mean, I know how some are<br \/>\ndefining it and I think I like the idea of it, generally speaking, but<br \/>\nI have no idea what it means to be a family-based youth ministry.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p><b>Can<br \/>\nsomebody help me out with this?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve read some portions of books and articles, sat in some seminars<br \/>\nhere and there and I&#8217;ve been in a ton of conversations about the<br \/>\nimportance of family-based youth ministry.&nbsp; However, I still haven&#8217;t<br \/>\nreally witnessed a youth ministry who is truly shaping a family-based<br \/>\nyouth ministry where the &#8220;God-designed structures of the nuclear family<br \/>\nand the extended family of the church are helping young people grow<br \/>\ntoward mature Christian adulthood.&#8221;&nbsp;&nbsp; I&#8217;m not sure I could even begin<br \/>\nto explain it in a coherent way<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n&nbsp; <br \/>Do I think the family has a role in the spiritual formation of their children?&nbsp; Of course I do.&nbsp; Do I think that the local faith community has a responsibility to create environments for the spiritual formation of others children?&nbsp; Of course I do.&nbsp; Do I think that youth ministries and families need to be in harmony and working together to support one another in our roles and responsibilities?&nbsp; Of course I do.&nbsp; Do I know how to structure a youth ministry in such a way that does this effectively?&nbsp; Of course I don&#8217;t.&nbsp; Does anybody?&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p><b>Can someone help me better understand what it looks like for a youth ministry to be family-based?&nbsp; For those of you who are in the process of shaping family-based youth ministries, what does it look like?&nbsp; I mean, what kinds of things are you doing that are different than the &#8220;conventional&#8221; youth ministry models?<\/b><br \/>&nbsp; <br \/>So, I thought that rather than trying to reveal my ignorance on the issue, I&#8217;d rather sit back and learn from those of you who are doing it.&nbsp; Here are some questions that I would love some thoughts on (and so would the group of people who&#8217;ve requested this theme).<br \/>?&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;Is there a need for a youth pastor\/worker in a family-based model?<br \/>?&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;What does discipleship\/formation look like in a family-based model?<br \/>?&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;How do you go about this in cooperation with the other staff or workers in your church (for example, the children&#8217;s ministry)<br \/>?&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;How does the &#8216;youngish&#8217; in age youth pastor\/worker even lead parents of teenagers toward such a model? (Of course, I am assuming that there is a need for a youth pastor\/worker in such a model.)<br \/>?&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;Does it work?&nbsp; Do you have any &#8216;success&#8217; stories to share?&nbsp; What defines success?<br \/>?&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;Where might I go to get some really good help on better understanding what family-based youth ministry is?<br \/>?&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;How do the youth in your faith community feel about family-based youth ministry?<\/p>\n<p>Again, I&#8217;d really love to be informed on this topic.&nbsp; I long for youth ministries to be more proactive in working with the family in process of spiritual formation of youth for the mission of God and I think there are many others like me out there.&nbsp; Help!&nbsp; Where do we go with this?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here is a recognized youth ministry leader who is asking us for some help. 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