{"id":4962,"date":"2009-05-22T12:10:49","date_gmt":"2009-05-22T12:10:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2009\/05\/friday-is-for-friends-jeremy-b-2.html"},"modified":"2009-05-22T12:10:49","modified_gmt":"2009-05-22T12:10:49","slug":"friday-is-for-friends-jeremy-b-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesuscreed\/2009\/05\/friday-is-for-friends-jeremy-b-2.html","title":{"rendered":"Friday is for Friends: Jeremy Berg"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>A post from Jeremy Berg for our Friday is (from and) for Friends:<\/i><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"teens-stress.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/120\/import\/imgs\/teens-stress.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"margin: 0pt 0pt 20px 20px;float: right\" width=\"300\" height=\"189\" \/><\/span>I&#8217;m typing this blog from my laptop while text messaging, checking my<br \/>\nemail, listening to my Ipod, updating my Twitter and sipping an iced<br \/>\nmocha. I&#8217;m totally wired&#8211;both from caffeine and all the electrical<br \/>\ncords juicing all my gadgets. Just another over-stimulated day in the<br \/>\n&#8220;technopolis&#8221; of the 21st century world.<\/p>\n<p>As I wrap up another year of high school ministry one thing is for<br \/>\ncertain: teenagers are too busy, involved in too many things, trying to<br \/>\nplease too many people&#8211;all this while trapped in a fast-paced,<br \/>\nover-stimulated world of hypertechnology and seeing no easy way out of<br \/>\nthis vast web of over-connectivity.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m researching the power of culture and media technology in<br \/>\npreparation for two messages I&#8217;m giving this weekend to senior high<br \/>\nstudents at a missions retreat. I&#8217;m speaking on the topic of<br \/>\n&#8220;Discipleship of the Mind&#8221; based on the popular movie trilogy, &#8220;The<br \/>\nMatrix.&#8221; The book I&#8217;m reading is A Matrix of Meanings: Finding God in<br \/>\nPop Culture by Craig Detweiler and Barry Taylor. Here&#8217;s some insights<br \/>\nfrom the chapter I&#8217;m currently reading<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n<br \/>\nJeremy Rifkin, author of <i>The Age of Access<\/i>, notes, &#8220;The techno gurus<br \/>\npromised us that instant access would lighten our loads and give us<br \/>\nback more time. Is it possible, instead, that the nanosecond culture is<br \/>\nenslaving us in a web of ever-accelerating connections from which there<br \/>\nseems to be no escape?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He mentions the rising number of boys being diagnosed with attention<br \/>\ndeficit hyperactivity disorder in the U. S., saying, &#8220;Is it any wonder?<br \/>\nIf a child grows up in an environment surrounded by the fast pace of<br \/>\ntelevision, video games, computers and constant media stimulation,<br \/>\nchances are that his neural development will condition to a short<br \/>\nattention span.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, parents have often proven little help in this arena. Newsweek<br \/>\nreported that &#8220;millions of parents around the country say their lives<br \/>\nhave become a frantic rush in the minivan from school to soccer to<br \/>\npiano lessons and then hours of homework. But they&#8217;re trapped, afraid<br \/>\nto slow down because any blank space in the family calendar could mean<br \/>\ntheir offspring won&#8217;t have the resumes to earn thick letters from<br \/>\nHarvard&#8211;and big bucks forever after.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Yet, as our calendars get fuller and fuller, our souls grow emptier and<br \/>\nemptier. The wisdom of Jesus is proven again: &#8220;What shall it profit a<br \/>\nman, if he should gain the whole world (the electronic world included)<br \/>\nbut lose his own soul&#8221; (Mark 8:36). Our souls long for silence, inner<br \/>\npeace, temporary disconnection from the technological in order to<br \/>\nmomentarily reconnect to the spiritual.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"alone-with-god.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/120\/import\/imgs\/alone-with-god.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"margin: 0pt 0pt 20px 20px;float: right\" height=\"252\" width=\"300\" \/><\/span>We are spiritual beings designed with spiritual appetites and thirsts<br \/>\nthat TV or Twitter cannot quench. We owe it to the more hidden places<br \/>\nof our being&#8211;those quieter areas that will not show themselves on a<br \/>\ndigital screen&#8211;to begin listening to the deeper yearnings for escape,<br \/>\nsolitude, and renewal. I suspect that if we did take an internal Holiday of the soul, visiting those<br \/>\nexotic far off, neglected areas of our inner being, while leaving our<br \/>\nelectronic gadgets behind, we just might encounter the God who is<br \/>\nunseen&#8211;the God who reveals himself in the wilderness, and speaks in<br \/>\n&#8220;the still, soft whisper.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Go out and stand before me on top of the mountain,&#8221; the LORD said to<br \/>\nhim. Then the LORD passed by and sent a furious wind that split the<br \/>\nhills and shattered the rocks&#8211;but the LORD was not in the wind. The<br \/>\nwind stopped blowing, and then there was an earthquake&#8211;but the LORD was<br \/>\nnot in the earthquake. After the earthquake there was a fire&#8211;but the<br \/>\nLORD was not in the fire. And after the fire there was the soft whisper<br \/>\nof a voice&#8221; (1 Kings 19:11-12).<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yet Jesus often withdrew to lonely places for prayer&#8221; (Luke 5:16).<\/p>\n<p>So, Jesus Creed friends:<\/p>\n<p>How do you escape the constant buzz of the 21st century technopolis? &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>How do you practice Jesus&#8217; habit of retreat and solitude amidst your busy schedules?&nbsp; How do you intentionally unplug? &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>How do we help hyper-connected teenagers disconnect for their own &#8220;internal Holiday of the soul&#8221;? &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A post from Jeremy Berg for our Friday is (from and) for Friends: I&#8217;m typing this blog from my laptop while text messaging, checking my email, listening to my Ipod, updating my Twitter and sipping an iced mocha. 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