{"id":4731,"date":"2009-04-03T12:49:49","date_gmt":"2009-04-03T12:49:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2009\/04\/friday-is-for-friends-jeremy-b-1.html"},"modified":"2009-04-03T12:49:49","modified_gmt":"2009-04-03T12:49:49","slug":"friday-is-for-friends-jeremy-b-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesuscreed\/2009\/04\/friday-is-for-friends-jeremy-b-1.html","title":{"rendered":"Friday is for Friends: Jeremy Berg and Birth Control"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is a guest post from <a href=\"http:\/\/jeremyberg.wordpress.com\/\">Jeremy Berg<\/a>.<br \/>\n<span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Berg.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/120\/import\/imgs\/Berg.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;float: left\" height=\"226\" width=\"309\" \/><\/span><br \/>You have heard the Christian slogan: &#8220;Christ is Lord of all or not at all.&#8221; &nbsp;Right?&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>National Public Radio had a featured story tonight on the <strong>Quiverfull<\/strong> movement. &nbsp;If you&#8217;re unfamiliar with this movement, <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Quiverfull\">Wikipedia<\/a> defines Quiverfull as &#8220;a movement among conservative evangelical couples&#8230;<span>Its viewpoint is to receive children eagerly as blessings from God, &nbsp;<\/span><span>eschewing all forms of&nbsp;<\/span><span>birth control<\/span><span>, including&nbsp;<\/span><span>natural family planning<\/span><span>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<\/span><span>sterilization<\/span><span>.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Their own <a href=\"http:\/\/www.quiverfull.com\/\">website<\/a> provides the following mission statement: &nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;We exalt Jesus Christ as Lord, and acknowledge His<br \/>\nheadship in all areas of our lives, including fertility. We exist to<br \/>\nserve those believers who&nbsp;<strong>trust the Lord<\/strong>&nbsp;for family size, and to answer the questions of those&nbsp;<strong>seeking truth<\/strong>&nbsp;in this critical area of marriage.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<p><span>What do we make of this movement?<br \/>\n&nbsp;Where do they fit into the broader evangelical movement? &nbsp;To be honest<br \/>\nfor a moment, I have always been challenged in the area of sexual<br \/>\nethics by our Roman Catholic brothers and sisters. &nbsp;There is a certain<br \/>\nconsistency in their faith at this point. &nbsp;They refuse to bar God from<br \/>\nthe bedroom. &nbsp;God is sovereign over every area of our lives, and sex<br \/>\nand childbearing are enormously important areas. &nbsp;Catholics are<br \/>\npassionately pro life not to be politically subversive and<br \/>\ncountercultural but because they believe with all their heart that God<br \/>\nis pro life and they are being obedient to his will in protecting the<br \/>\nunborn.&nbsp; <br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Likewise they are passionately against the use of<br \/>\ncontraceptives; not to be socially unpopular and to make life<br \/>\ndifficult. &nbsp;Rather, they believe God alone is sovereign over when and<br \/>\nhow new life is born. We<br \/>\nevangelicals proudly wave the banner of God&#8217;s sovereignty and strive<br \/>\ntirelessly to influence so many areas of public morality with Biblical<br \/>\nteachings and values: Prayer in schools, Ten commandments in<br \/>\ncourthouses, same-sex marriage, abortion, etc.&nbsp; <br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Yet I often wonder if<br \/>\ntheir is a huge blind spot when it comes to God&#8217;s sovereignty over our<br \/>\npersonal decisions regarding the details of family planning. &nbsp;Is there<br \/>\na gaping inconsistency when it comes to giving God control over such<br \/>\nthings as when we have children, how many children we&#8217;ll have, how we<br \/>\nspace them out, which income bracket we need to reach before we start<br \/>\ntrying and so on? &nbsp;Such decisions seem to be based more on <em>practicality<\/em> than faithful obedience, prayer and God&#8217;s will. &nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Please don&#8217;t get me wrong. &nbsp;I am<br \/>\nnot ready to &#8220;take sides&#8221; on this issue, throw out birth control and<br \/>\nbegin judging other couples&#8217; decisions on how, when and how many. &nbsp;But<br \/>\nI do want to at least give these folks a hearing, admire their devotion<br \/>\nand humbly admit that I find myself challenged, a bit convicted and<br \/>\ninspired by one core conviction of these Roman Catholics and<br \/>\nQuiverFulls:<em> They are striving to give God lordship over this area<br \/>\nof life as well, and willing to go against the grain of the culture &#8212;<br \/>\neven the Christian subculture &#8212; in order to remain faithful. &nbsp; <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>What are your thoughts on God&#8217;s lordship over family planning? &nbsp;Are<br \/>\nevangelicals less consistent in this area of faith than Roman Catholics<br \/>\nand the QuiverFull movement? &nbsp;Is there a middle ground on this issue?<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a guest post from Jeremy Berg. 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