{"id":4320,"date":"2009-02-13T06:00:20","date_gmt":"2009-02-13T06:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2009\/02\/friday-is-for-friends-99.html"},"modified":"2009-02-13T06:00:20","modified_gmt":"2009-02-13T06:00:20","slug":"friday-is-for-friends-99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesuscreed\/2009\/02\/friday-is-for-friends-99.html","title":{"rendered":"Friday is for Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>David Naugle&#8217;s new book, <em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0802828175?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=jescre-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0802828175\">Reordered Love, Reordered Lives: Learning the Deep Meaning of Happiness<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=jescre-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0802828175\" alt=\"\" style=\"border: medium none  ! important;margin: 0px ! important\" border=\"0\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\" \/><\/strong><\/em>, is a delightful series of reflections on a Christian understanding of happiness. I like his theme of balance and I wonder if some want to converse about the struggle to find the balance or to live happily with the imbalance. Here&#8217;s a good statement by Naugle:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Trying to live in the creation without the Creator, or<br \/>trying to live with the Creator without creation<br \/>is incomplete and ultimately harmful.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\nThe struggle for the balance is palpable and surrounded by mystery and disrupted by our brokenness (he speaks here of Genesis 3). &#8220;Still,&#8221; he says, &#8220;we have a residual memory of paradise in our minds&#8221; (27). I believe this; I hope you do, too. Brokenness makes us long for happiness so much we find shallow happinesses in shallow things and shallow relations; our yearning is so deep we fixate on the shallow as we know that there is something deeper yet to know.<\/p>\n<p>The Germans calls this <i>Sehnsucht<\/i> and Lewish fixated his heart and soul on Joy. That is, &#8220;we occasionally experience a mysterious and tremendous feeling that attracts and baffles us simultaneously&#8221; (28). Where have you found this experience?<\/p>\n<p>Lewis said these experiences were the scent of the flower or the echo of the tune from a far country. In other words, these experiences are sacraments of The Thing Itself.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"McCoyPic.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/120\/import\/imgs\/McCoyPic.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"margin: 0pt 0pt 20px 20px;float: right\" height=\"328\" width=\"498\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>David Naugle&#8217;s new book, Reordered Love, Reordered Lives: Learning the Deep Meaning of Happiness, is a delightful series of reflections on a Christian understanding of happiness. I like his theme of balance and I wonder if some want to converse about the struggle to find the balance or to live happily with the imbalance. 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