{"id":22,"date":"2008-11-03T00:10:00","date_gmt":"2008-11-03T00:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2008\/11\/california-defines-marriage.html"},"modified":"2008-11-03T00:10:00","modified_gmt":"2008-11-03T00:10:00","slug":"california-defines-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesuscreed\/2008\/11\/california-defines-marriage.html","title":{"rendered":"California Defines &#8220;Marriage&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\"><i>Another letter, <br \/><\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">Dear Scot,<\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: Arial\">I<br \/>\nknow you&#8217;re sick to death of this topic, and before writing you I read<br \/>\nyour entire series again, but I am in a grave quandary over how to vote<br \/>\non Proposition 8, a voter-led initiative on the California ballot to<br \/>\ndeclare marriage a union between a man and a woman as part of<br \/>\nCalifornia&#8217;s constitution.&nbsp; This move is intended to override the<br \/>\nruling by the California Supreme Court overturning the ban on gay<br \/>\nmarriage.<\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: Arial\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: Arial\">My<br \/>\nquestion is this.&nbsp; Assuming that we accept the proposition that<br \/>\nhomosexual behavior is not &#8220;what God has created us for or redeemed us<br \/>\nto&#8221; (Richard Mouw&#8217;s phrase), how do we, as members of the church apply<br \/>\nthat in the public square?&nbsp; How do we weigh what we believe to be God&#8217;s<br \/>\nwill for humanity with notions of justice, fairness, and rights to the<br \/>\npursuit of happiness.? I&#8217;m torn betwixt looking God in the face and<br \/>\nsaying that I voted for family and societal structures contrary to<br \/>\nGod&#8217;s intention, and between looking my gay and lesbian brothers and<br \/>\nsisters in the face and telling them that I voted against their<br \/>\nopportunity to make a civilly recognized commitment to each other.<\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: Arial\">I&#8217;m<br \/>\nnot too worried about the slippery slope towards polygamy &#8211; I think<br \/>\ndefining marriage as between two people is a boundary which can be<br \/>\nmaintained.&nbsp; And I&#8217;m not too worried about the slippery slope towards<br \/>\nadults marrying teenagers (although this was the practice in NT<br \/>\ntimes!).&nbsp; <br \/><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: Arial\">I do worry about the effect this will have on the educational<br \/>\nsystem &#8211; despite assurances of supporters of gay marriage to the<br \/>\ncontrary, this is exactly what has happened in Lexington,<br \/>\nMassachusetts.&nbsp; And I do worry about creating a society in which<br \/>\neveryone will have to weigh and experiment with their own orientation<br \/>\nwhen all notions of &#8220;normalcy&#8221; are abandoned and about what effect that<br \/>\nwill have on the institution of marriage.<\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: Arial\">Perhaps others in the community would be willing to weigh in before I have to vote on November 4<sup>th<\/sup>.&nbsp;<br \/>\nI expect this issue may arrive in many other states in the months and<br \/>\nyears to come.&nbsp; And I would appreciate it if you would weigh in as<br \/>\nwell.<br \/>\n<\/span><br \/><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">Blessings,<\/p>\n<p class=\"x_MsoNormal\">Friend<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Another letter, Dear Scot, I know you&#8217;re sick to death of this topic, and before writing you I read your entire series again, but I am in a grave quandary over how to vote on Proposition 8, a voter-led initiative on the California ballot to declare marriage a union between a man and a woman&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":70,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-public-issues"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - 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