{"id":1611,"date":"2006-12-01T02:30:55","date_gmt":"2006-12-01T02:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jesuscreed\/2006\/12\/friday-is-for-friends-19.html"},"modified":"2006-12-01T02:30:55","modified_gmt":"2006-12-01T02:30:55","slug":"friday-is-for-friends-19","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jesuscreed\/2006\/12\/friday-is-for-friends-19.html","title":{"rendered":"Friday is for Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are four theologians, who happen to be my age (or close), whom I have decided to read whatever they write &#8212; if I can find time. LeRon Shults, Kevin Vanhoozer, John Franke, and Miroslav Volf. Volf&#8217;s newest book, which I want to examine over the next couple of months, is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/End-Memory-Remembering-Rightly-Violent\/dp\/0802829899\/sr=11-1\/qid=1164857271\/ref=sr_11_1\/002-1524078-6740037\"><em>The End of Memory<\/em><\/a>. Beginning this week with this book is especially appropriate because Volf deals with memory and being abused. <!--more|inline--><br \/>\nIn Yugoslavia, with a wife and an almost-completed PhD dissertation left behind, Volf was inducted into the military only to discover that his every move was being watched; he was interrogated and humiliated and abused.<br \/>\nHow, he asks, do you remember abuse? How, more importantly, do you remember abuse rightfully and truthfully? And, the ultimate question of grace, &#8220;How does one seeking to love the wrongdoer remember the wrongdoing rightly?&#8221; How does one remember who desires neither to hate nor to disregard but to love the wrongdoer? And this &#8212; don&#8217;t forget: How does one seeking to love the wrongdoer condemn rightly?<br \/>\n&#8220;My soul,&#8221; Volf says, &#8220;was at stake in the way I remembered Captain G&#8221; (17).<br \/>\nVolf discovered that after the events his mind was enslaved by the abuse he had suffered. He wanted to get the abuser out of his mind (Captain G.) but couldn&#8217;t. Evil, he learned, needs two victories if it accomplishes its full work: first, the evil deed itself; second, when the victim returns evil with evil.<br \/>\nRemembering is not a choice; one remembers whether one wants to or not. The issue is <em>how <\/em>to remember.<br \/>\nCondemnation of the evildoing is part of memory; but condemnation is designed in Christianity to lead to reconciliation, so far as that is possible.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are four theologians, who happen to be my age (or close), whom I have decided to read whatever they write &#8212; if I can find time. LeRon Shults, Kevin Vanhoozer, John Franke, and Miroslav Volf. 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