{"id":50,"date":"2010-05-24T17:15:25","date_gmt":"2010-05-24T17:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/jennifercares\/2010\/05\/hope-dare-to-dreama-new-dream.html"},"modified":"2010-05-24T17:15:25","modified_gmt":"2010-05-24T17:15:25","slug":"hope-dare-to-dreama-new-dream","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/jennifercares\/2010\/05\/hope-dare-to-dreama-new-dream.html","title":{"rendered":"Hope: Dare to Dream&#8230;a NEW Dream"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The life of a caregiver is filled with emotional ups and downs, as well as complete changes of course! It&#8217;s a challenging, yet beautiful path to be on.&nbsp; When life as you know it changes because of an accident, a diagnosis, or the onset of an illness know that it&#8217;s ok to allow your hopes and dreams to change, too!<\/p>\n<p>To create and maintain hope this week, let&#8217;s first focus on making sure we haven&#8217;t abandoned our dreams.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Right&nbsp;this minute, please think of something you&#8217;ve always wished for&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>With that in your mind, allow yourself to think about how&nbsp;your caregiving situation has impacted that dream.<\/p>\n<p>And now, let&#8217;s think about how to tweak that dream a bit so that you can hold on to hope and generate positive energy (whch will attract more positive energy).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>When you&#8217;re doing this mental exercise, it&#8217;s important to<\/em><\/strong> <strong><em>think about things in terms of what you want, as opposed to what you do not want to happen.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For example, if the&nbsp;&#8220;old dream&#8221; regarding your loved one was&nbsp;&nbsp;&#8220;I want a cure.&#8221;&nbsp;The new dream could be, &#8220;I want a&nbsp;pain-free day.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s helpful for many to keep a Hope Journal.&nbsp; You can write down those hopes, revisit, and modify as necessary.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;It&#8217;s not &#8220;giving up&#8221;, its realistically and effectively managing your emotions to keep yourself strong. There&#8217;s big hope in that!&#8230;Don&#8217;t you think? <\/p>\n<p>j.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The life of a caregiver is filled with emotional ups and downs, as well as complete changes of course! 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