{"id":133,"date":"2014-06-11T00:32:13","date_gmt":"2014-06-11T00:32:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/inthecards\/?p=133"},"modified":"2014-06-11T00:32:13","modified_gmt":"2014-06-11T00:32:13","slug":"ask-the-oracle-my-relationship-is-in-trouble-now-what","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/inthecards\/2014\/06\/ask-the-oracle-my-relationship-is-in-trouble-now-what.html","title":{"rendered":"Ask The Oracle: My Relationship Is In Trouble. Now What?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/inthecards\/files\/2014\/06\/Aliza-Einhorn-Wonder-Wheel-.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-134\" alt=\"&quot;full moon in sagittarius&quot; \" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/372\/2014\/06\/Aliza-Einhorn-Wonder-Wheel--225x300.jpg\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>That she kept seeing<em> the Death card<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Before this blog went live, I had to approve the<strong> In the Cards<\/strong> header that you see above, the logo and Tarot images. In the first version,<strong> the Death card<\/strong> was present. It was a superb image of a naked skeleton, beautiful and stark, but I worried about it being too edgy. I asked for a change. Now I&#8217;m not sure if I was right or wrong. I didn&#8217;t want to be the difficult new employee. A picture of <strong>the Magician card<\/strong> is in its place now and my point is this: <em>sometimes we see the Death card<\/em>.\u00a0This gal was seeing it a lot.<\/p>\n<p>This is one of the dangers of <strong>reading Tarot for yourself<\/strong>. Sometimes scary cards come up and you don&#8217;t know what they mean, how to interpret them, anxiety-free. Any Tarot reader though will be quick to tell you that Death usually means things are changing. A slow grinding process. Inevitable.<\/p>\n<p>Like life.<\/p>\n<p>So we were near the end of a <strong>fairly lengthy Tarot session<\/strong> and I pulled three more cards for the relationship:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Death, Three of Swords, Wheel of Fortune.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Oy.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Three of Swords<\/strong>, the middle card: what was most pressing. Heartache.<strong> Death<\/strong> on the left, reflecting how she was feeling: dying inside. Finally, uncertainty of what could possibly grow in its place: the <strong>Wheel of Fortune<\/strong> on the right. Pain and change. Painful change. Changing pain. <strong>Wheel of Fortune<\/strong>: we don&#8217;t know where it will land BUT IT IS MOVING, which reminds me: <strong>Full Moon in Sagittarius<\/strong> this week. \u00a0Sagittarius is &#8220;ruled&#8221; by Jupiter and Jupiter is associated with the Wheel of Fortune card. Spin the Big Wheel.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m happy to tell you that this story has a happy ending. <strong>The Death card<\/strong> for them did not portend a break-up but an arduous, ultimately fruitful passage. They are still together. Happy. Happier.<\/p>\n<p>So, my dear reader, <strong>when the Death card comes to find you<\/strong>, please keep this in mind, in the words of Bob Dylan: \u00a0<em>death<\/em> <em>is not the end<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Love,<br \/>\nAliza<\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S. What&#8217;s your least favorite Tarot card and why? 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