{"id":68,"date":"2011-02-02T14:28:58","date_gmt":"2011-02-02T14:28:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/insweetcompany\/2011\/02\/moving-out-of-the-shadows.html"},"modified":"2011-02-02T14:28:58","modified_gmt":"2011-02-02T14:28:58","slug":"moving-out-of-the-shadows","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/insweetcompany\/2011\/02\/moving-out-of-the-shadows.html","title":{"rendered":"Moving Out of the Shadows"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>&#8220;Admitting to our shadow (the unrecognized or unclaimed parts of ourselves we can&#8217;t acknowledge because we&#8217;re afraid of them) &#8212; to our gifts as well as the parts of our personality we view as &#8216;bad&#8217; or &#8216;ugly&#8217; &#8212; dramatically changes our lives, and most people are afraid of change so they don&#8217;t deal with these things head on. But we must face these difficult experiences because it&#8217;s the key to becoming whole.&#8221;<\/i> &#8212;&nbsp; Lauren Artress,&nbsp; IN SWEET COMPANY: CONVERSATIONS WITH EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN ABOUT LIVING A SPIRITUAL LIFE<\/p>\n<p>Our nation&#8217;s most famous groundhog, Punxsutawney Phil, told a chilled-to -the-bone&nbsp; crowd in rural Pennsylvania this morning that he had not seen his shadow so Spring would come early this year.&nbsp; When I was a kid growing up in Detroit, I looked forward to Phil&#8217;s prediction. I believed animals had heightened senses that not only allowed them to survive in the wild but endowed them with the ability to know things I didn&#8217;t. Phil was cool. Phil was wise. I believed. <\/p>\n<p>I was also intrigued by the idea that one&#8217;s shadow could influence one&#8217;s future, particularly a period of rebirth and growth, a metaphorical &#8220;Spring,&#8221;&nbsp; Though I was too young to really understand the underlying psychological truth inherent in this metaphor, it intuitively rang true. <\/p>\n<p>Since this year began, I&#8217;ve been noticing that almost everyone I know is moving through their days at breakneck speed. One friend told me he can&#8217;t even find the time to get to the supermarket. Another has a mile-high plateful of seriously urgent problems to address.&nbsp; Another is being hit over and over again with difficult lessons about &#8220;letting go.&#8221; The list goes on. Everybody&#8217;s toast.&nbsp; Me, too. I feel like I live about 5 lives by supper time each day.<\/p>\n<p>So, when I read today that Phil had not seen his shadow, I smiled at the prospect of an early Spring. Though it seems like a lot of people I know are living in the shadowlands now, that Spring will come early is a much needed sign that rebirth and growth are&nbsp; waiting for us.<\/p>\n<p>Your thoughts?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Admitting to our shadow (the unrecognized or unclaimed parts of ourselves we can&#8217;t acknowledge because we&#8217;re afraid of them) &#8212; to our gifts as well as the parts of our personality we view as &#8216;bad&#8217; or &#8216;ugly&#8217; &#8212; dramatically changes our lives, and most people are afraid of change so they don&#8217;t deal with these&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":231,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,4,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-68","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-collective-wisdom","category-personal-transformation","category-womens-spirituality"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Moving Out of the Shadows - In Sweet Company<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/insweetcompany\/2011\/02\/moving-out-of-the-shadows.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Moving Out of the Shadows - In Sweet Company\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"&#8220;Admitting to our shadow (the unrecognized or unclaimed parts of ourselves we can&#8217;t acknowledge because we&#8217;re afraid of them) &#8212; 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