{"id":64,"date":"2011-01-21T21:03:40","date_gmt":"2011-01-21T21:03:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/insweetcompany\/2011\/01\/gray-is-beautiful.html"},"modified":"2011-01-21T21:03:40","modified_gmt":"2011-01-21T21:03:40","slug":"gray-is-beautiful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/insweetcompany\/2011\/01\/gray-is-beautiful.html","title":{"rendered":"Mr. President: Gray is Beautiful"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>&#8220;Getting in touch with [ this feminine, receptive side of our nature ] can be a life-transforming experience because what we&#8217;re really talking about when we talk about receptivity is how we can be open to growing and evolving into more enlightened human beings.&#8221; <\/i>&#8212; Lauren Artress,, N SWEET COMPANY: CONVERSATIONS WITH EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN ABOUT LIVING A SPIRITUAL LIFE<\/p>\n<p>My hair started graying when I was 18. By the time I was 25 my silver streaks (on one so young) were frequently the topic of spontaneous conversation in elevators and check-out lines. I enjoyed the attention, the distinctiveness of my look. As a child, my mother and all my Aunties had silver hair. They were such good women I believed having gray hair meant you had a connection to the angels.<\/p>\n<p>After a serious car accident 13 years ago, my graying accelerated. (Interestingly, my once cheerio-curls no longer sprung like corkscrews about my head.) My skin also took on an ashen hue given the stress of the injuries I sustained. Conversations in elevators and check-out lines were equally colorless. I started to dye my hair to keep questions about my health to a minimum. Four years ago, I developed an allergy to hair dye and had to go <i>au natural<\/i>. I had no idea whether the outgrowth would be gleaming or dull and overcast. <\/p>\n<p>Fortunately for me and for those who have to look at me, my hair came in bright white. I am again engaged in fashionable conversation. My eyes look bluer than they are, I appear wise &#8212; or at least experienced. The years that it&#8217;s taken to accumulate all that white have made me a lot more comfortable with who I am &#8212; and am not. It&#8217;s a good look and a good place to be. I feel Womanly in a way I never did before.<\/p>\n<p>All this furor about President Obama&#8217;s graying <i>coif <\/i>amuses me. We all know the job takes a toll on the Presidential Head. Maybe a president needs to be connected with the angels to give the world a little luster.<\/p>\n<p>Your thoughts?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Getting in touch with [ this feminine, receptive side of our nature ] can be a life-transforming experience because what we&#8217;re really talking about when we talk about receptivity is how we can be open to growing and evolving into more enlightened human beings.&#8221; &#8212; Lauren Artress,, N SWEET COMPANY: CONVERSATIONS WITH EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN ABOUT&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":231,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal-transformation","category-womens-spirituality"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Mr. President: Gray is Beautiful - In Sweet Company<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/insweetcompany\/2011\/01\/gray-is-beautiful.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Mr. President: Gray is Beautiful - In Sweet Company\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"&#8220;Getting in touch with [ this feminine, receptive side of our nature ] can be a life-transforming experience because what we&#8217;re really talking about when we talk about receptivity is how we can be open to growing and evolving into more enlightened human beings.&#8221; 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