{"id":50,"date":"2010-12-10T17:22:51","date_gmt":"2010-12-10T17:22:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/insweetcompany\/2010\/12\/the-spirit-of-prayer.html"},"modified":"2010-12-10T17:22:51","modified_gmt":"2010-12-10T17:22:51","slug":"the-spirit-of-prayer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/insweetcompany\/2010\/12\/the-spirit-of-prayer.html","title":{"rendered":"The Spirit of Prayer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>&#8220;My God is both personal and impersonal.&nbsp;By this I mean that though in His infinite nature He is formless, all pervading, I have come to have a relationship with God that is so close, so sweet, so profound and blissful, that it is deeply personal.&#8221;<\/i> &#8211; Sri Daya Mata, IN SWEET COMPANY: CONVERSATIONS WITH EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN ABOUT LIVING A SPIRITUAL LIFE<\/p>\n<p>Along with everything else he gave us, Emerson penned a simple and astute definition of prayer: &#8220;Contemplation of the facts of life from the highest point of view.&#8221; Given his interest in Eastern religion, his words now remind me of a line from a Sanskrit chant that pays homage to the transcendental aspect of God &#8212; that speaks of God as being &#8220;beyond quality and thought.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>But when I first came across his definition of prayer, I couldn&#8217;t relate to it; It felt to me as if the God Emerson prayed to was too impersonal, too detached for me. I believed his words were true, but they were not &#8220;my words.&#8221; Not soft enough around the edges. My experience of prayer is intimate, personal. It&#8217;s about relationship; it&#8217;s a conversation &#8212; mostly a one-way heart-to-heart, but a conversation nonetheless. &#8220;The highest point of view&#8221; is pretty rarefied. I like to think that when an &#8220;A-ha!&#8221; is dropped into my head it&#8217;s an answered prayer rather than a &#8220;point of view.&#8221;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Still, Emerson&#8217;s words drew me. I thought about what lifts me above the fray, what my highest thought might be: That I am, we are, unconditionally loved by God, loved in spite of our faults and foibles, understood by God to be works in progress. When I am aware of this &#8212; when I really &#8220;get&#8221; this about myself and others, when I experience this as a &#8220;fact of Life ,&#8221; it feels prayerful. Emerson&#8217;s words took on new meaning for me, then. <br \/>&nbsp;<br \/>Your thoughts? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;My God is both personal and impersonal.&nbsp;By this I mean that though in His infinite nature He is formless, all pervading, I have come to have a relationship with God that is so close, so sweet, so profound and blissful, that it is deeply personal.&#8221; &#8211; Sri Daya Mata, IN SWEET COMPANY: CONVERSATIONS WITH EXTRAORDINARY&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":231,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spiritual-journey","category-womens-spirituality"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>The Spirit of Prayer - In Sweet Company<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/insweetcompany\/2010\/12\/the-spirit-of-prayer.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"The Spirit of Prayer - In Sweet Company\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"&#8220;My God is both personal and impersonal.&nbsp;By this I mean that though in His infinite nature He is formless, all pervading, I have come to have a relationship with God that is so close, so sweet, so profound and blissful, that it is deeply personal.&#8221; 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