{"id":10,"date":"2010-08-23T16:29:21","date_gmt":"2010-08-23T16:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/insweetcompany\/2010\/08\/golden.html"},"modified":"2010-08-23T16:29:21","modified_gmt":"2010-08-23T16:29:21","slug":"golden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/insweetcompany\/2010\/08\/golden.html","title":{"rendered":"Golden"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>&#8220;Truth Within is sacred. It&#8217;s whole. It&#8217;s a positive energy that unifies and feeds the body and the mind.&#8221;&nbsp; <\/i>&#8212;&nbsp; Grandmother Twylah Nitsch, IN SWEET COMPANY: CONVERSATIONS WITH EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN ABOUT LIVING A SPIRITUAL LIFE<\/p>\n<p>Several years ago I was teaching an introductory ethics course to a group of university undergrads and was looking for ways to jazz up the standardized curriculum. Just between you and me, this course was pretty dry and one-dimensional. The required reading consisted of rigid ethical decision-making systems that championed &#8220;might makes right&#8221; with a healthy dose of &#8220;the wrath of God&#8221; on the side &#8212; something akin to being told to eat cardboard when you&#8217;re in the middle of a life crisis and hanging on by your fingernails. I wanted to serve my students something tastier, something that would actually help them learn how to think &#8212; and to compassionately about the hard choices they may need to make &#8212; but my Department Chair bristled at my suggestions.&nbsp; &nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>One night as I was driving home from class, I began thinking about &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n&#8230; &#8220;The Golden Rule,&#8221; that it&#8217;s one of the how-to&#8217;s for mankind that most of us &#8212; no matter what our differences &#8212; agree has merit. The Golden Rule, in any language, is an intuitive experience: When you read or hear the words you just know they are right and true. It&#8217;s a universal construct, part of the Collective Wisdom of world. It supports the Greater Good. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So I did a little research to see how The Golden Rule showed up around the world: The early Egyptians had a version. All the Greek philosophers weighed in, as they always do. The version we in the West are most familiar with appears in the book of Matthew. In Jewish texts I discovered &#8220;What thou thyself hatest, do to no man.&#8221; In Hinduism, I found, &#8220;Do naught to others which, if done to thee, would cause thee pain: this is the sum of duty.&#8221; In Buddhism, &#8220;A clansman should minister to his friends and family &#8230; by treating them as he treats himself.&#8221; In Islam, &#8220;Ascribe not to any soul that which thou wouldst not have ascribed to thee, and say not that which thou doest not.&#8221; I had a Golden Rule Party and <i>everyone<\/i> came! <\/p>\n<p>I compiled these Golden Rules and sent them to my Department Chair with a note saying that I thought the list would make for a great (interesting, expansive, deep, meaningful, practical, enthusiastic, yadda, yadda, yadda) class discussion on the universality of ethics and of the existence of the Greater Good. I could give my students a copy of the list, but she denied me the opportunity to discuss it with them. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When the semester was over, I resigned my teaching position. Later, I heard through the grapevine that when she taught the course, my Department Chair included my list in her curriculum. It was proof to me that The Golden Rule has a will of it&#8217;s own that cannot be denied.<\/p>\n<p>Your thoughts?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Truth Within is sacred. It&#8217;s whole. 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