{"id":7120,"date":"2022-07-07T09:58:39","date_gmt":"2022-07-07T13:58:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/inspirationreport\/?p=7120"},"modified":"2022-07-07T09:58:39","modified_gmt":"2022-07-07T13:58:39","slug":"viral-tik-tok-dad-shares-advice-with-millions-of-followers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/inspirationreport\/2022\/07\/viral-tik-tok-dad-shares-advice-with-millions-of-followers.html","title":{"rendered":"Viral Tik Tok Dad Shares Advice With Millions of Followers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Summer Clayton may not have children in real life, but he\u2019s\u00a0a \u201cproud dad\u201d to 2.8 million people\u00a0on TikTok. Every week, he sits down to dinner and a virtual chat with his \u201ckids.\u201d He looks into the camera with empathy and tells them he\u2019s proud of them. He teaches them<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@yourprouddad\/video\/7105837209915542830?is_copy_url=1&amp;is_from_webapp=v1&amp;lang=en\">\u00a0how to shave<\/a> and reminds them\u00a0it\u2019s OK to feel pain\u00a0when life hurts. Some days, he prays with them.<\/p>\n<p>Clayton, a civilian fitness trainer at Columbus Air Force Base in northeastern Mississippi, is not a therapist or a life coach. He\u2019s also only 26 and has no kids. To some, his one-way conversations may seem silly. But his compassion and charisma come through in the TikTok videos. These videos have struck a chord among people who need a father figure or just someone who appears to listen to their troubles.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere\u2019s a lot of great memories that I pull from in my childhood, but there\u2019s also these deficits that I don\u2019t want other people to experience, whether it\u2019s the feeling of sitting alone in the schoolyard when I was younger or just not having that relationship with my dad that I wanted,\u201d Clayton says about his approach to the videos.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt allows me to practice what it means to be nonjudgmental and to be kind.\u201d Clayton is a health buff with a bachelor\u2019s degree in corporate fitness and a master\u2019s in kinesiology. He loves lifting weights, taking photos, and cooking when he\u2019s not working at the base or making his videos.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" style=\"max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@yourprouddad\/video\/7099965103021313326\" data-video-id=\"7099965103021313326\">\n<section><a title=\"@yourprouddad\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@yourprouddad\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@yourprouddad<\/a>Happy Friday\u2764\ufe0f<a title=\"\u266c gymnop\u00e9die no.1 - Edits\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/gymnop\u00e9die-no1-6987582254625196805\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c gymnop\u00e9die no.1 &#8211; Edits<\/a><\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>He started posting inspirational and how-to videos on TikTok in late 2020, prompting followers to call him \u201cdad jokingly.\u201d His first video to go viral was a\u00a0shaving how-to\u00a0&#8212; a response to a follower who sent him a message asking, \u2018Hey Dad, can you teach me how to shave?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The video blew up, earning him tens of thousands of new fans within hours. Now he goes by \u201cyourprouddad\u201d\u00a0on TikTok\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/officialyourprouddad\/?hl=en\">Instagram,<\/a> where he has an additional 68,000 followers. From there, his videos have morphed into various recurring series, including his popular \u201cDinner With Dad,\u201d in which Clayton sets down two plates of food &#8212; one for him and one for his virtual \u201ckid.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>With a big smile, he quickly breaks down what\u2019s on the dinner plate. Sometimes, he blesses the food. Other times, he digs right in. Almost always, he asks, \u201cHow was your day?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Clayton is part of a growing cadre of online surrogate dads, including Rob Kenney of the\u00a0\u201cDad, How Do I?\u201d YouTube series\u00a0and Bo Petterson\u2019s\u00a0DadAdviceFromBo\u00a0on TikTok. They provide fatherly advice, how-to instructions, moral support, and dad jokes. Clayton, who wants to have a child of his own one day, recognizes that the responsibilities of a virtual father figure don\u2019t come close to those of a real dad.<\/p>\n<p>Clayton also shared that he feels pressured to help everyone. He gets thousands of messages daily asking for advice; However, he\u2019s there to give his virtual children emotional support for as long as possible.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Summer Clayton may not have children in real life, but he\u2019s\u00a0a \u201cproud dad\u201d to 2.8 million people\u00a0on TikTok. Every week, he sits down to dinner and a virtual chat with his \u201ckids.\u201d He looks into the camera with empathy and tells them he\u2019s proud of them. He teaches them\u00a0how to shave and reminds them\u00a0it\u2019s OK&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":657,"featured_media":7126,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fbia_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[111,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment","category-inspiring-messages"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Viral Tik Tok Dad Shares Advice With Millions of Followers<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Summer Clayton may not have his own children, but that doesn&#039;t stop him from giving fatherly advice to his millions of Tik Tok followers.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link 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