{"id":507,"date":"2011-04-05T00:10:33","date_gmt":"2011-04-05T04:10:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/inspirationreport\/?p=507"},"modified":"2011-04-05T08:09:14","modified_gmt":"2011-04-05T12:09:14","slug":"hope-i-dare-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/inspirationreport\/2011\/04\/hope-i-dare-you.html","title":{"rendered":"Hope… I Dare You"},"content":{"rendered":"

If I haven\u2019t told you lately, I love you, dear readers. For the last few weeks, I\u2019ve seen you pour out your hearts in response to blog posts like \u201cDon\u2019t Give Up\u201d<\/a>, \u201cCount Your Blessings\u201d<\/a> and “Hope After Loss”<\/a>. Your vulnerability inspires me. That and the fact that you love videos of laughing babies<\/a> and talking toddlers<\/a> as much as I do. Any way, you\u2019ve encouraged me to be a bit more vulnerable in my writing too. <\/p>\n

My recent birthday was a multi-day celebration full of good times and good friends, but my happiness was threatened by a shocking surprise. A romantic relationship that I thought was developing into something special completely fell apart. In the midst of birthday wishes and blessings, all I could think about was this one guy who decided now was the time to tell me that he didn\u2019t want to be with me. I was crushed. <\/p>\n

Lucky for me, I have an amazing support system, and I was well taken care of in the days afterwards. There were lots of with hugs, kisses, prayers and listening ears.<\/p>\n

So now that I\u2019ve recovered, I\u2019m sitting here at my desk recounting the last week and I realized what made me the most upset. I muttered to myself, \u201cHow dare he make me hope again\u2026\u201d Because that\u2019s what getting disappointed means. You dwelt in the possibility of something new and wonderful. You opened up and allowed yourself to imagine more than what you have. It felt great\u2026 until those hopes were dashed. <\/p>\n

It made me recall words I\u2019d just written in a previous blog post<\/a>: \u201cWhen tragedy strikes, it can rob your sense of hope. It tampers with your ability to believe in the best that life can offer.\u201d Although I wrote those words, I didn\u2019t realize how real they were until I found myself grappling with the same issue. <\/p>\n

Your response to that blog was overwhelming, as each of you told story after story of adversity. You\u2019ve been hurt. You\u2019ve been bruised. You\u2019ve been sucker punched by life. I understand that it\u2019s hard to imagine a dream coming true ever again. I get it. But you know what? <\/p>\n

I dare you to hope. Hope against hope. Hope against what\u2019s happened in the past. Hope against your worry about the future. I dare you, in these difficult days, to be an optimist and take a chance that the best is yet to come.<\/p>\n

I felt the hit, but I\u2019ve decided to consider it a lesson learned and move forward. I’m going to try again. Will you?<\/p>\n

For More Encouragement:
\n12 Ways to Let Go of Past Loves<\/a>
\nSusan Piver: Healing a Broken Heart<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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