{"id":329,"date":"2010-12-07T21:14:25","date_gmt":"2010-12-07T21:14:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/inspirationreport\/2010\/12\/daylle-deanna-schwartz-launches-a-self-love-challenge.html"},"modified":"2010-12-07T21:14:25","modified_gmt":"2010-12-07T21:14:25","slug":"daylle-deanna-schwartz-launches-a-self-love-challenge","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/inspirationreport\/2010\/12\/daylle-deanna-schwartz-launches-a-self-love-challenge.html","title":{"rendered":"Daylle Deanna Schwartz Launches a Self-Love Challenge"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/inspirationreport\/Dayle.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Dayle.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/89\/import\/assets_c\/2010\/12\/Dayle-thumb-147x220-20094.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;float: left\" width=\"147\" height=\"220\" \/><\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'\"><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">Self-help books push building self-love but most people are still in<br \/>\nshort supply of it. It&#8217;s easy to encourage people to &#8220;love yourself&#8221; more and<br \/>\nsounds good, except to those who don&#8217;t know how to start. With pressure to look<br \/>\nand act perfect at an all time high, more people than ever don&#8217;t feel good<br \/>\nenough to be loved. <br \/>&nbsp;<br \/>That&#8217;s why Beliefnet blogger and best-selling author, Daylle Deanna<br \/>\nSchwartz, registered <b>January as Self-Love Month <\/b>in the National Special<br \/>\nEvents Registry, launched <a href=\"http:\/\/www.howdoiloveme.com\/\">www.HowDoILoveMe.com<\/a><\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">, and initiated a <b>31 Days of Self-Love Challenge<\/b>&#8211;a pledge to<br \/>\ndo something loving for self on every day of January 2011, to jumpstart<br \/>\nawareness of making an effort to treat oneself with kindness. Daylle&#8217;s book,<br \/>\n<b><i>How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways<\/i><\/b>, is available for free as<br \/>\nan e-book on the site. Its 223 pages has hundreds of suggestions for treating<br \/>\nyourself more lovingly.<br \/>&nbsp;<br \/>Daylle wants people to develop the kind of<br \/>\nself-love, and happiness, that she did. She knows how it feels to look in the<br \/>\nmirror and only feel self-loathing. Years ago, all she saw in the mirror was<br \/>\ncellulite and frizzy hair. Her perceived flaws blinded Daylle to her wonderful<br \/>\nqualities. Self-love was just for other people!<br \/>&nbsp;<br \/>Daylle found the key to<br \/>\nself-love when she began to treat herself a bit more lovingly. The kinder she<br \/>\nwas to herself, the better she felt. The better she felt, the more she made an<br \/>\neffort to do loving things. The synergy helped build strong self-appreciation,<br \/>\nwhich blossomed into powerful self-love. <br \/>&nbsp;<br \/>Starting on January 1, 2011,<br \/>\npeople can post what they do to show themselves love on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.howdoiloveme.com\/\">www.HowDoILoveMe.com<\/a><\/font><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\">, to<br \/>\nhelp them reinforce each act of love and read what others do for more ideas.<br \/>\nDaylle will a <b>31 Days of Self-Love<\/b> marathon of articles on her popular<br \/>\nblog, Lessons from a Recovering DoorMat on Beliefnet, for the entire month of<br \/>\nJanuary. Daylle will give tips for building self-love as well as guest writers<br \/>\nand there will be interviews with inspirational people, including<br \/>\nSARK.<br \/>&nbsp;<br \/>People can continue to post their self-loving acts for the whole<br \/>\nyear. There will be a new challenge for January 2012<b>. <\/b>Daylle believes<br \/>\nthat each little self-loving thing you do&#8211;from taking a short walk on a busy<br \/>\nday, to getting a massage, to saying &#8220;I love you&#8221; in the mirror, to saying &#8220;no&#8221;<br \/>\nto something you don&#8217;t&#8217; want to do, to a minute of deep breathing, to taking<br \/>\nsteps to find a better job, to making time for a bath, etc.&#8211; is a building block<br \/>\nfor the foundation of self-love. <br \/>&nbsp;<br \/>As negative habits are replaced with<br \/>\nkinder ones, self-love can become a lifestyle. For people who take the <b>31<br \/>\nDays of Self-Love Challenge<\/b>, January could be the beginning of a beautiful<br \/>\nself-love affair!<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/\"><br \/>Read Daylle&#8217;s inspiring blog, Lessons from a Recovering Doormat<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat\/2010\/12\/question-is-it-a-contradiction-to-feel-blessed-yet-still-feel-lonely.html\">See a recent inspiring post<\/a>.<br \/><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Self-help books push building self-love but most people are still in short supply of it. It&#8217;s easy to encourage people to &#8220;love yourself&#8221; more and sounds good, except to those who don&#8217;t know how to start. 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